My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me anymore?!

=( I'm sorry I don't really know how to answer ur question cause I haven't had sex yet so I don't really know anything about your topic but if you need to vent I'm here
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Wow that pretty dam mean. He might be sa or something and not be in the mood but to hold out for a long time isn't right. Tell him that you want it and he's making you feel bad and crappy because he doesn't fulfill your needs. If he keeps saying no you should find a better man for yourself.

Men aren't sex machines, there are times when we aren't interested. If he's stressed out, tired, or depressed, then he's not likely to be up for sex. Don't assume the problem is with you, or with him, there are many factors at play.

The most important thing is to find out what he meant by not being wanting to have sex with you. Don't just ask him straight out, he might feel your trying to accuse him or nag him. Be frank with him about your concerns. He might not feel like talking about it now, so you might want to let him cool down. When you do try to talk to him, make sure he's up for it. Ask him if he's willing to talk about it, most men aren't particularly happy to hear, "I want to talk about our relationship."

ummm that's weird like doesn't want to tonight or ever ?and on you're birthday that's f***ed up.that's so weird the only reason I could think of is he uses sex by withholding to mess with you a power type thing.what you need to do is stop trying to have sex with him or anything and see if he can hold out and if he can what he would feel like if you held out on him on his birthday or when he really wanted it.but that is weird does he even still like you

Yeah that's so mean sounds like he's haven sex with someone else what guy do you know doesn't want to have sex unless their already getting some! Just move their are plenty of guys who want sex just as much as you do

I think he's losing interest in you or found someone else. I'm so sorry to say that, but it is very odd for a guy to tell a girl that he doesn't want to have sex anymore. I would start sleeping on the couch myself, and see if that gets a reaction from him. My ex was like that, I would be next to him in bed and cry because he made me feel awful about myself..I started sleeping on the couch and he started yelling at me for that. I asked him what difference it made...Eventually he chose to leave and I had my answer. At least I didn't have to lay next to someone that made me feel bad about myself. Good luck sweetie, but somethings up with this guy and he isn't treating you right!