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Should I make the first move?

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scared2askhim (Age:Under 18)     When: 6 months ago
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Ok so I've liked this guy for about 6 years. I really want to tell him how I feel but you know that's really hard to do. Should I make a move and ask him out or should I just wait even longer?

Update: There is one problem though. Hes younger than me so he's just finding out about all this stuff. His friends tell me that he's ready but only he can say that. I want to tell him sooo bad. I think I will but now the question is how should I tell him?    6 months ago

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rambozulu (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
If you wait longer you may loose him. It hurts bad when that happens. Its happened to me with one girl. So make a move if you know he likes you. You have nothing to loose :-) if he likes you.
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Smittymd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
I agree with the other response. You need to tell him how you feel (without scaring him away). I wouldn't bring up future with him, more or less tell him that you want to get to know him better. After that, then it is his move. You have placed the ball in his court and it is up to him what is going to happen next. That is all you can do.
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Pull him aside and just ask him straight out.
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My opinion, go for it. Its been SIX YEARS that you have liked this guy, that is a pretty long time. You can't wait on him forever because he might find someone else. And plus if things don't work out, the bright side is he'll know how you feel and you'll totally feel a load off of your shoulders by getting your feelings all out. And you can finally move on. And if he does say yes, then your in luck! :) so g-luck!. You should definitely tell him now so you have no regrets.
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