On October 5 of this year, my boyfriends son had a birthday and my boyfriend took him to a skating rink out of town. I was at work and didn't find out til I got off. I asked him why he didn't take him to the one where we live. He said he forgot, but I don't believe that at all. He told me later that she, the kids momma went to but they went in separate cars. He said she followed them, I don't believe that either. He then later told me how they were conversating about things. He said that she was showing him a restaurant that she had been too. So how could they go in separate cars for her to show him anything. Am I wrong to think that something is going on between them. Why couldn't he tell me up front . He already had this planned out. Why didn't he ask me to take off of work that day so I could come too. He never lets me see her or be around her. I treat his kids like my own. I buy clothes and shoes for them if they where mine. They spend every other weekend at our house. so what's the deal with him and her.
this is a very touchy subject. Possibly one of the most drama filled subjects I have ever heard read been involved in etc. If he doesn't want you to meet his baby's mother, than you need to respect that, and drop it. WHY would you want to anyway? What do you have in common with her? What would you say to her? Meeting her, would actually more than likely just be opening a can of worms, jealousy, lies, deciet women are very catty, and this is the man she will have in her life forever, which means she may not BE IN love with him, but she will always have love for him. As far as him being a bit of a liar, drop it, go on with your life and support him with everything, be more excited when you hear about the day he had with the kids, don't bug him or harass him about every detail. In the end, he's going to do what he wants, and you can either be mellow and anti dramatic about it, or leave, because she will ALWAYS be in his life, and since you seem to be having such a problem with him and his lying, leave. This will continue and never change unless YOU do. Sorry this is going on this must be much stress, I hope everything gets figured out and fixed! God bless
Thank you for your advice. I don't harrass him about her or meeting her I just ask him to give me the same respect that he gives her. It doesn't bother me much that I haven't met her but once. He just seems like he likes the idea of her not wanting him to be with me. But when his kids need things he always come to me to help him get them. That's why I get upset because I help him do for his kids because I can't take it out on them because I wouldn't want my kids to be treated that way. - 5 months ago
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