i have a long distance relationship. I saw my girl last week and today we talk about chilling tomorrow. We talked all week to about it. She called me tonight when I was out and I answered and said I'm with friends let me call you back when I'm home. She said no don't call me if you want to have fun with your friends. So I'm like why can't I call you later. She said something about bed or what ever. Then I said ill call you tomorrow before we chill, and she said don't, don't call me again. So the conversation went on for another two minutes and ended. Should I call tomorrow or is she going to call me? What's going on ?.. And just to add, have no idea what I did wrong.
I know this was 4 days ago but I'm answering anyways,
Well another possibility is that perhaps she had a bad day, or something went wrong and the one person she can count on to take her stress away or even talk about it is 'busy' hanging out with friends. She just felt like you shut her down. If she said she's going to bed then you need to text her that night and ask if you can call. If she doesn't text back, then respect her space. Call her the next day for sure. When you see her, discuss it with her but let her know that you didn't wan't to talk to her when your friends are around because she wouldn't want you to be on the phone talking to friends when you two are spending time right? Let her know she means a lot to you and that you were looking forward to seeing her.
Maybe you never call her? Maybe you should take more initiative in calling her and complimenting her.
I think she's being over dramatic, but for reasons only a GIRL would get. She feels like you don't want to talk to her because your friends are there (but you were busy and didn't want to ignore her talking and make her mad) you should call her if she doenst answer then let her call you next. When/if you talk to her explain that you didn't want to ignore her and wanted to talk and REALLY listen when you had the chance and that you didn't mean for it to sound wrong. Maybe that'll help :)
In short, she's angry that you put your friends in front of her - she's angry you would rather talk to them than her. Although by saying you'd call her back later this obviously isn't what you meant, but she's taken it in a negative way. You should call her tomorrow and make it clear you value her and your friends equally. Best of luck :)
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