I was with this guy for 7 years and our biggest problem was always I felt like he was holding back from me and he hated they way I would bring up the issue. We've been broken up a while now but he would send me text messages and calls in a tone that sounded like we were still together. I recently asked him if he was dating someone and he said "something like that", but when I spoke to his sister she said he had moved in with a woman 20 years older than him. She also explained that neither his family nor his friends like the woman, as she has changed him. She explained that at one point the woman lied to him about her and his mother and that he wouldn't speak to them for 3 months. We run in different circles so I wasn’t aware of any of this and even though he still won’t admit to me he is in a relationship I’ve asked him if he wanted me out of his life and he has said no. His sister has offered to help me get him back and I think I’d like to, but how does a younger woman compete with an older woman who is willing and able to financially support a younger man?
It is obvious he has fallen into the claws of a cougar. I know that you probably like this guy very much, but there is NOTHING that you can do. It is a lesson he will have to learn on his own. I am sorry I cannot give you some advice to get him free of his ordeal. Just move-on and pray one day you two can get together again.
well I have to say if you guys broke up but stayed friends that's good and all, but you guys leave different lives its not like you guys are Ross and Rachel just move on and find a guy who makes you happy. someone who is willing to open up to you. your ex's family not liking this woman is their and his issue. save yourself from a lot of tears and hardship in the future and move on
How does anyone get an ex back? Usually you don't. I don't even see him as lying to you. He's not dating this woman, he's being supported by her and though he may enjoy aspects of it he probably isn't totally at peace with the situation and too uncomfortable about it to discuss it with you.
I think he is enjoying your friendship, he had no intentions of getting back with you but wants you as a friend. Remain his friend and let the rest go. At any point he could be back on the singles market and who knows if either of you will want to get back together when that happens.
Don't chase him replace him. The guy lied to you, he's dating someone else, and was playing games and sending mixed signals. If he wants to date that old sugar mama there's nothing you can do. Don't even try to compete, I'm sure there is a guy out there that would appreciate you for you, find him and stop chasing after this guy if he wants to be with her.
I completely agree.why would you want him back you are well rid. Quit putting this much energy into someone whos treating you like a muppet and put it into a guy who deserves it. - A month ago
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