What do I do?

Ask yourself this question. Do you enjoy smoking pot? Are there other contributing factors related to the pot-smoking that is causing the demise of your relationship? Examples would be :
(1) Unemployment
(2) Laziness
(3) Lack of Focus
(4) Trouble with the Law
(5) Or not being coherent when you're around her


If NONE OF THE ABOVE applies to your relationship. Then there may be a bigger factor that's causing the demise of your relationship. The 'marijuana' may be just a cover up. It may be the long-distance commute, incompatibilty, or possibly...someone else!

well for one all I can say is don't stop something that you like for her because in the end ur gonna blame it on her and say it wuz her fault...jus arrange like wen she isn't around you smoke but at least have da respect not to do it in front of her...dats how me and my ex were...he stopped smokin and drinkin for me and wen we broke up he blamed it on me.,...just show her that when yall are together its you and her not you her and smokin...show her a different side of you that she never seen

Give up smoking pot if she doesn't like that. Don't just say you will, do it. Actions speak louder than words and continually saying you WILL do something but not following through will show her your true personality.