I'm 18 and have been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. When we make out we get really into it but the furthest we've gone are hjs because I'm not into the whole bj idea :/ where do guys like to be kissed/touched that REALLY gets them hard? ;)
Kissing on the neck, behind the ears, and even the chest (yup, even the nipples) is a real turn on. Do a lot of rubbing and let the warmth of your breath give him goosebumps. Now go, have fun!
Kissing and sucking on the bottom of the ear and on the side of his neck should do the trick. Also you can use plenty of saliva by spitting in your hand or on his d*** and he'll love it. If you decide to try a bj then you could ask him to pee and then take a shower so you know everything is clean. Also a girl I know said she makes sure the guy is precumming which is just the clear liquid that comes out when the guy is really into it. She does that so it removes any urine as well. If you don't want come in your mouth try telling him to let you know before he's gonna blow and finish with a wet handjob. As for the taste if the whole day before he doesn't smoke, drink alcohol, or eat red meat, and does drink lots of water, fruit juice(pineapple). and even eating celery all will help to give it a sweet taste instead of a bitter one. Hope this all helps.
that guys kinda creepy hahaha but I think you should kiss his neck that's sexy.. I won't lie getting heads pretty cool but if you don't lke it don't do it!
There is no substitute for a BJ, but if he is not getting hard by your touch at this age, you are in trouble. I suggest you try the BJ thing if you are really into him. My wife says it is great. Just seeing the look on my face is worth getting past the whole eww part. All I know is that we both enjoy the oral side of sex. At some point you are going to expect your partner to consider that for you, and he should be just as willing to please you orally as he wants you to please him orally.
Ewwww!!! how old is he? no offense dude but uhhh come on! your way to old for this site let alone answering a teens question ...specially what you said think about it - A month ago
Now, now, no need to get ruse ;) Age brings experience and I can understand his opinion even though I disagree with the suggestion of giving a BJ even if she doesn't like it. If she doesn't like it then there's no real feeling and that just brings up depression in the end... (forcing yourself to do something you do not like, even for a beloved one == BAD) - A month ago
This site is for anyone looking to ask or help other people. age shouldn't matter anyway. and the fact that a teen asked this shouldn't matter, because grown women may be wondering the same thing. if anything, he brings experience with his age. it's not like he's hitting on anyone, so get over it, shut up, and stop acting like some f***ing middleschooler that thinks every adult that talks to them is a creep - A month ago
I think you are wayyyy to old to be on here. - 17 days ago
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Oral Sex is a way of life.. and the question was asked by an 18 year old adult. I am not suggesting she give ME a BJ, but my point is that she is likely going to try it at some point in her life, so she might as well see how she likes it now. If she don't then she shouldn't continue doing it. - 17 days ago
My wife does a great "JOB" and yes, she enjoys doing it, and she also enjoys receiving as much as I enjoy making love to her orally. I am not sure why so many want to dog my answer, it fits exactly what was asked above.. - 16 days ago
you guys are funny! but seriously wtf at this old guy answering this yikes! talk about 45+ lmaoooooooooo
ps I'm so sorry lol - 11 days ago
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I think it is strange that everyone keeps commenting on my age. The question was asked by an adult (18), and she needs an answer from an "experienced" adult (me and you). Who has more experience than an 18 year old? Everyone who is older than 18. I have a huge advantage over her and most of you. I have been 18 (and your age too), but few of you have been my age, and that is why I make a good point of reference. So please stop dogging my, you will catch up eventually. :-) - 11 days ago
Dude nigga grandpa not to be rude but seriously your fuccking pushing 60 on here with a name like "playboy" woahhhhhhhhhhhh !!! guy what is going on ! get off this computer and go bang your wife for the love of pete before I do it for ya old man D= - 11 days ago
Try some soft light kisses behind the ear lobe and on the neck. Nothing wrong with a good HJ either...but maybe sometime try adding some lotion to it --- that may set him off in a way you have never saw
So true! I gave my boyfriend his first handjob with lotion at our 4 month. He was a little wary at first, just like, "You're going to moisturize me?" but the minute I slid my hand over him...his eyes rolled back in his head and he was just in heaven. :) Now he loves the lotion!!!! - A month ago
Theres nothing better than experimentation (also, the experimentation will really work... guys love their girlfriend exploring their bodies and parts).
Try licking if your not into b/j. Lick along his length, always a winner.
if you really love a guy, and you are sure he loves you back! you deff wouldn't mind giving him a head or even f***ing him... so what kind of love are you talking about?! (only if you waiting for marrage)
Ear, the muscley spot in between the neck and shoulder, ribs, hip bones. And to be honest with you its not fair to wanna do something to a guy that 'really gets him hard' if you're not gonna do anything else besides a hj... unless you're f***ing amazing at hj's... You have really been together a year and three months w/o having sex?
When we were in the back seat my boyfriend would get so excited when he was sitting upright and I would straddle him and push my body up against him and kiss him hard. I would usually grab the back of the seat so that I could push harder, or grab the back of his head and pull him closer then lean into him.
Just kissing and touching should do the trick. You could try a bj using a flavoured condom if your opposition to doing it is because you don't want it in your mouth (totally understand!). But if you aren't comfortable, don't do it.
Well, sometimes when you stroke it you need to ask him how it feels. You want to act according to his body. When you stroke you can also LIGHTLY play with his balls. You can also kiss his nipples for extra reaction.
I'm not into BJ's either, I think its kinda gross, and I wouldn't ask a guy to go down on me either. she doesn't like it, so she shouldn't have to do it, and she's asking what else she can do to make him happy. - A month ago
Honestly, many people view it as degrading towards women. I'm not saying it is, because I really have no opinion on the subject, but you should really respect what other people are comfortable doing and not doing. - A month ago
Yeah, some girls just aren't into giving head. you shouldn't be so judgmental to someone who's looking for advice about a sensitive topic. - A month ago
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Yeah, I'd prefer NOT to have come all in my mouth thanks. :/ - A month ago
This is a terrible answer. It just isn't a very appealing act to a lot of people, so why should they have to do something they aren't comfortable or happy doing, just to fit in and not be judged by people like you? - A month ago
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If its the come you have a problem with why not ask him to come on your t*ts or don't swallow? - A month ago
I kno my man likes it wen I bite his neck and put my hands on his chest and run them up and down his abs and just touch him lightly. but the biting really turns him on - A month ago
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