I've been with my man for bout 3 years now, I have this new friend who we have BOTH have a LOT in common, and I like her she seems cool, but now I'm re thinking being her friend because she COULD put my relationship in jeopardy, she was really interested and who MY man was!wth so do I stop talking to her because of him? or take it slow I love my man so much ! I'm afraid they'll like each other..
I know this isn't the sexiest answer or whatever but if you have confidence in him and the fact that he is with you than you have nothing to worry about. It's that simple, I've had plenty of friends with girls that I would date straight up, and I never did anything. It's a man rule, and I don't know how girl rules work cause I'm not one but I'm sure its similar.
Trust issues. Lots of them. The glaring ones are: 1. (the biggie) you don't trust your man; 2. You don't trust your girlfriend.
If they get together and leave you out in the cold, they deserve what they get.
True love doesn't possess.
Advice? People benefit by being trusted. If you trust and then get hurt, then you know that you've done all you can to preserve your relationship with him. You'll not have guilt feelings. You'll also be alone, which is the best thing that could come out of this situation. Then you can move on with integrity.
There's a level of insecurity going on here that I just can't comprehend. You're way overreacting. If you stopped being friends with all girls your guy could potentially like, guess what! You'd have no female friends. You really need to get over yourself here.
you have no confidence what so ever. If you wanna keep her as a friend and also keep your bf, Just don't hung out with both of them at the same time, and don't even talk to him about her and don't talk to her about it, And once again you don't have confidence in yourslef because if you did, You wouldn't be worred this much.
some guys do that just to make you jealous and see how you react. but I would still keep an eye open and if you trust him then sure, but I dont' trust blindly, that' show I am but dont' accuse him of anything and stay close friends with this new friend as well
it does matter what she thinks.. it doesn't matter if the the hottest girl on earth or if she has the best personality ever. the question is. what does your man thinks of her and how strong is your relationship with him so far? did he mention that she's hot or anything that might sound like he does like her? had he ever cheated on you with anyone? does he have a wondering eye?
if he didn't then you re just imagining things and I bet you feel alittle insecured about it..its not her, it could be anybody! if the man is willing to cheat believe me Nothing would stop him even if you don't talk to her.. so I suggest you talk to him about this.. but if he doesn't have any intentions about it..most probably that's the case.. he will get really upset that you don't trust him! if you don't wanna talk about it with him perhaps you should just do nothing and watch closely...consider it as a little tiny test..
remember not to become obsessed with it because you will be the one who ruins the relationship you have with him and you don't want that if you re insecured maybe you should work on it yourself.. its not him or her its You!
First of all what man would actually TELL his woman that her firned is HOTT to them that?s a major red flag, and my man?s extremely intelligent he wouldn?t do that , he knows it obviously show he?s into her I understand that I and I Am insecure I'm not afraid to admit that,and I?m working on it too, The reason is because before (like 2 years ago) he brokeup with me to have sex with someone else I was a virgin at the time, but THAN I didn?t think of it like that. We love each other SOO much,
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Well here is the thing darling, you need to understand that even though he is wrong by saying those things about this girl, whether he does like her or not. what you need to do is to work on yourself rather than worrying about his actions, because if a man is going to cheat he is going to cheat whether she is hot or not, if he has the intertions it doesn't matter who she is or how she looks like. plus there will always be someone hotter and whatever. You need to worry about YOURSELF, not him! - 17 days ago
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