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Scenario: Your loving parent(s) are on their death bed and....

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here4you (Age:18 to 24)     When: 26 days ago
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Their dying wish is to see you married, and you're not seeing anyone. What would you do?
These parents have loved you since the day you were born and of course you've had fights but nothing serious.
So what would you do?
Just go out and find someone to marry?
or
forget about marrying someone, you're waiting till you find someone you really love

granted you can find someone you love and marry them before your parents die but lets forget about that

So what would you do?


Update: oh yea I forgot you guys don't do arranged marriages
sorry...    16 days ago

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Kamio
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Kamio      When: 26 days ago
when a parents dieing wish is to see their son or daughter get married, it's not about seeing them sign a marriage certificate with just anyone. They want to see their son or daughter, meet the love of their life and marry them. They want to know they have found the person for them, a person they can spend the rest of their life totally completely and madly in love with. So what would I do.

Get married, but only when I meet the person I fall head over heels for. That's what they wanted. Yes, they could die before they see me with this person, but that's how life goes.
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Cool-Relax
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Cool-Relax      When: 26 days ago
My parents would probably follow that request by laughing hysterically. Jokes are a good way to lighten the mood :P
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ArtistBboy While you are right on other situations, I disagree with the situation and your response. If they are dieing, I wouldn't want to laugh or make them laugh- It would lighten the mood with the right people; however, it would seem like I am making a joke of their death or that I am comfortable with them passing on. - 26 days ago
Answerer Wow, it was sarcasm. - 25 days ago

ivarei
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ivarei      When: 26 days ago
i don't think my parents would want me to rush into a marriage that could end up ruining my life.
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Question Asker What if they did?
then what would you pick? - 26 days ago
Answerer Then they wouldn't be loving parents and I wouldn't do jack sh*t. I'm not going to get married to someone quickly just because my parents want to see me married. why on earth would they want me get tangled up in such a mess?
but to answer your question, if they were that stubborn and didn't see how negative it would be for me and it was their dying wish, I still wouldn't do it. - 26 days ago

ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy      When: 26 days ago
if it was that serious I guess I'd marry one of my guy friends
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That-Guy
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That-Guy      When: 26 days ago
That's like saying that their dying wish is to see you jump the grand canyon and you aren't ready.

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ArtistBboy
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ArtistBboy      When: 26 days ago
forget about marrying someone, you're waiting till you find someone you really love

There is no sense in rushing things along - my parents can be there in spirit, everyone is invited to my wedding =)

That really hurts to think about... Parents dieing and all...
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Question Asker Yea its a long story
and this question just popped in my head - 26 days ago
Answerer Do I have the best answer material? If so, check the box next to my picture that says "best answer" - 26 days ago
Question Asker Why would I do that? - 26 days ago
Answerer The reason you would do that is because of how you feel. Do you agree with how I feel? If so - you would mark this as the best answer because of that feeling. That way people can see how you, the question asker, feel about the subject and what you thought was the best answer. - 26 days ago
Question Asker But what I want to know is
what does that have to do with what I first said yea its a long...my head - 26 days ago
Answerer Your question was "Their dying wish is to see you married, and you're not seeing anyone. What would you do?"

In regards to your response: "Its...in my head" - This answer gives you a detailed response of not just an answer to your question, but also a reasoning behind that answer.
"Forget about...really love" <-- answer to your question
"There is...to my wedding" <-- Reasoning for answer

Therefor - I feel I deserve the best answer, because a lot of people agree with me- and my answer is - 26 days ago
Answerer (continued) detailed, rather than just a "blunt answer".
Also, I have had this situation happen before- my best friend and I were talking about 3 years ago about getting married before the other dies, or we will fade away into a "zombie" persona.

Well, she got in a bad car accident and now she is watching over me - I wasn't ready to marry someone, though I did consider the situation heavily. - 26 days ago
Answerer =/ Aparently I don't deserve best answer after striving so hard.. Meh, oh well =) if you need other answers let me know! - 20 days ago
 
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