you find love by not looking for it... when you look for it you won't find it because none will ever add up to the perfect love description you have tucked away in your mind. when you stop comparing everyone to that list more and more people tend to fall into your list without you noticing. so instead of matching everyone up right away you give them a chance to be them self's and so you fall for them when they are their own person and not trying to put on a show for you.
You are not giving us lots of details here. Do people like you? Do you get laid? And so on.
If you want to increase your chance at falling in love you can start by being social and meet new people all the time, let people get into your life. That's a really good start.
No guys don't tend to like me much and I'm a virgin and I'm almost 21. - 3 months ago
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Okay! I think you might want to learn how to spark attraction in guys. Maybe there is something about you right now that is a turn-off. The way you act, the way you dress...I don't know, there are lots of things to improve but I don't know you so I can't tell you why guys don't tend like you (this could be all in your head though). - 3 months ago
well you can try and try , and yes.. sometimes it seems like you have found it.. but life works in very mysterious ways... sometimes when you think its all hopeless and you will never find it.. it can all change and find its way to you, its almost like it happened to me. :]
Lmao I think deeply about sh*t like this and id like to hear your explanation (btw I'm not saying its dumb its just so blunt its kinda funny) - 3 months ago
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You want me to explain mystical wisdom? It cannot be done. - 3 months ago
If you think you can find love than you got it all wrong. Noone will ever be able to understand love. But I do know that if you look for it you won't find it. You have to be patient and let it come to you. But trust me, when it comes you will know it.
I didn't find love, and neither can you 'find' love. It popped out of no where, and it made me so happy and weird. You can't 'find' love, as Cartiphilus said, it finds you. If you're looking for love, you'll never 'find' it, you're expecting it to happen. When your ready, and happy where you are, love will pop out, like it did for me.
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