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Is there anything wrong?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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My husband is away from me. I meet my ex- boyfriend once in a time. Is there any wrong it I continue?

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budphillips
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budphillips (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
Ok there is absolutely nothing right about this, after you told me he fingers you or there is oral. There. Is. Nothing. Right. About. This.
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joeschmoe23
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joeschmoe23 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 7 months ago
If you have to ask, then there's probably something wrong. Why would you be meeting your ex in the first place, just out of curiosity? You know they are called "exes" for a reason, right?

I'm sure there are some guys out there who can get along with their wife's ex, but not many. If this is your husband, and he was okay with it, then I don't see no harm done.

But I'm willing to bet that's not the case here.
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Question Asker My ex is just helping me by filling the absence of my husband. So if I take it as a chance not to loose my pleasure? - 7 months ago

budphillips
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budphillips (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
I need more detail before I decide, although I'll tell you that nothing sounds RIGHT about any of this.
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Question Asker My husband works abroad for 6 months. I miss it for long time. My ex meet and simply kiss or some times finger or oral etc. Rarely intercourse. - 7 months ago

drkind2000
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drkind2000 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 7 months ago
Ask yourself a few Questions

1) would I like it if he did it to me?
2) are you keeping the vows you gave when you got married?
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AJtogo
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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: 7 months ago
Yes it's wrong. Even if you and he are not planning to do anything. You have had a past relationship and you're setting up the scenario where something could happen.

Married people and exes don't mix. Only one thought can be drawn from this. AFFAIR.
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Suave-Man
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Suave-Man (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
If I were you I wouldn't do that. If I was your husband, I might or no I would get the wrong idea. It's okay to see him out in public (by accident) because you can't avoid that. But if you go intentionally to meet with him, what is a guy to think. This is exactly why I don't hang out with girls who are taken or girls who I may later have feelings for or had feelings for. I don't think it's terrible but something isn't right here. What do you think your husband is going to say, "okay honey go have fun with your ex boyfriend. " No, there's going to be some flirting and teasing and laughing going on. Stuff that you're only supposed to be doing with your husband.
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RFRFRF
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RFRFRF (Age:25 to 29)      When: 7 months ago
Technically no there is nothing wrong, unless you do something wrong. When he finds out it might make him feel insecure. Even tho your intentions are good. Good?
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shelbi-89
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shelbi-89 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
If your boyfriend would have a problem with you meeting your ex boyfriend when he's not around than YEAH its a big problem. Hiding anything from your boyfriend is a problem. Why would you want to be in a relationship based on lies?
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Question Asker My husband works abroad for 6 months. I miss it for long time. My ex meet and simply kiss or some times finger or oral etc. Rarely intercourse. - 7 months ago
Answerer That is CHEATING! And THAT is very bad. Just because you "miss" your husband doesn't mean you go for someone else. That's terrible! - 7 months ago

lizaveta
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lizaveta (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Ask your husband. Some husband are OK with these things and trust you enough to not get involved. Others aren't. This isn't for anyone but him to decide.
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LessthanLisa
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LessthanLisa (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
More detail is needed here, like what do you do with your ex when you meet him? If you sleep with him, then you're cheating on your husband and that is wrong. If you just sit and talk, then that is not wrong at all, just so long as you don't feel a need to hide it from your husband.
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Question Asker We meet. Initially talking only. Then he started just a kissing. After some days it moved a head in anal and oral. Once we did 69 and I enjoyed well. Finally he did it, I mean intercourse. Now I feel better of him than my hus. I know I do wrong, but in hus's absence He is a great help to me. So am I wrong? - 7 months ago
Answerer You're still cheating, and therefore still wrong... imagine how your husband would feel if he knew. - 7 months ago
Question Asker How do I know that he too is not cheating me? - 7 months ago
Answerer Two wrongs do not make a right.

My boyfriend used to live 5 hours from me, we rarely got to see each other when he was so far away. I never cheated on him and to the best of my knowledge he never cheated on me either. It comes down to trust. I trusted him not to cheat and so I could never do the same to him.

If you can't trust your husband enough to not doubt him, then I think you may need to question why you're still with your husband. - 7 months ago
 
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