Boyfriend looking at online escorts?

All I have to say here is girls frequently overreact about things of this nature. My ex wife did the same thing to the point where well, guess why she's my ex.... To the point where no matter what I said I must have been with these girls, or wanted to be. In reality ya it'd be fun is what a guy is thinking, just like you girls think it would be cool to be with certain singers or movie stars. Will it ever happen?

99 percent of the time NO. So freaking out about it only stands to upset him yes. As it is a huge double standard. About an escort that I'm not sure about, but here is my advice to you, maybe you need to keep him a bit happier sexually and not distance yourself. Maybe he's just trying to show you there are other girls out there. I don't think that is the case though. As he didn't intend on you finding that I'm sure, nor you searching for it.

I guess my thing is if you feel that you can trust him that much already. You should be stoping yourself. TRUST is huge in a realationship. And if you can't even trust him online, how can you even imagine being with one another?

Also as I said before in another post, believe it or not, if guys got it as much as they needed, the need to porn/escorts would be nonexistent its nice not saying it's not. Although if a guy is with a girl she should be able to entertain him enough, if he's doing such things, she's not entertaining him enough. OR he's just away on a business trip and doesn't wanna cheat so he just uses a mag/dvd/tv. Which is why I guess us guys are so up in arms when our girls try to TAKE our porn from us or say well why don't you just do her not me. Well first off that's probably never going to happen, so why freak out? Unless I'm at home and so are you then yes I can understand being upset. Unless your one of those girls that just sits there in the mood and never says a word, or expect us to do favors for you, and don't care to return them, then again guys don't date girls that do those things, and I think they don't in good reason.

Sorry just my .02 about the hole situation. I think your overreacting and you should have maybe of been there then he wouldn't have to be looking at escorts. ;) not that it was right to do. Just saying don't expect him if you leave him to just sit there and not try to find somebody, or something new. Thats just plain unfair. You'd do the same. Heck maybe he thought you two where over who knows. Most girls when they say they need a break mean where done.

I think most guys are curious as to what being out with an escort would be like. Trust me, most guys are not stupid enough to actually think it would turn into a relationship or anything remotely serious. Don't think he is looking to leave you for an escort is what I'm trying to say. It's possibly he was just curious, after all it's an interesting field when you think about it. A guy pays money for a night of companionship and a fantasy. Well, what would the girl be like? Fake, friendly, just after the money? How much would something like that cost? You would think they get paid good. Like a geisha, they are not supposed to be hookers or prostitutes, and it's an odd and provocative field nonetheless. Now, he said he wouldn't look at that again- so has he? If he hasn't then I wouldn't worry any more about it. If he has don't approach him in a way that is accusing, harsh or such, but ask him why he was curious. It's possible he would never hire an escort, but really was just curious. Let's face it, when you're curious about something and you don't think the other person will know.. it's very tempting to tame that curiosity. It's natural cause otherwise it's sits in the back of your mind and bugs ya. After all, you looked at the history on his computer.. curiosity. My main point- don't accuse or over react just yet. Ask him why he was curious and then see if he's still looking. Then confront him based on what you know at that time.

If he's hooking up with them, that's horrible. But, otherwise, I agree with the answer above. At least it's not nasty hard-core porn. Although, it doesn't make sense to me why you'd look up escorts unless you planned on calling one. Otherwise, just look at porn sites or something, you know? I think it's kinda weird.

It's normal for men to look at women. You are seriously over reacting. There is no reason to get upset unless he is actually hooking up with any of them.