So, I met this guy not long ago. He's very nice, and ovb. Very cute. I've slept with him a number of times, two of which he was naked. Nothing sexual happened. (I wouldn't allow it. ) He did how ever kiss me twice, (fyi he was my first kiss). He had told me a number of times (in different words) that he did NOT have a girlfriend. I later found out, LIE. Even though this was a really shitty move on his part, he is actually a pretty good friend. My question is, do I keep quiet? I did for about two weeks, later finding out I was not the only other girl. She actually tried to tell his girlfriend when she found out about me. However he got to his girlfriend and saved is ass. I don't know though, should I say something? Would it even be worth the drama?
Tell her, sometimes I feel we gotta help people. I mean if my girl was cheating on me I would like someone to tell me. But it seems like it wouldn't make a difference maybe because if she has been confronted before then ya know. If you really want to get him have a phone conversation with him and record it then play it to his girl so he can't cover that up, but make sure all the evidence is there ya know. Then never talk to him again because you gonna get hurt he isn't gonna change. Good?
Ehh, there's no way to do that now, because he knows for sure now, that he can get caught. We hardly talk anymore anyways. We were friends before his other-other girl told his girlfriend, and he thought I was apart of it. He's a really good friend, just a shitty boyfriend. We're working on our friendship, and I'd rather attempt to help him then screw his relationship up. Thanks for your answer. - 5 months ago
U tell me, in the whole part were you hurt by his motives or intention. If yes then the ball game is totally different. If the feelings were mutual and left alone then no point creating scene 'over spilled milk
Well to be honest, when I thought I was the only other girl. I was a little hurt but not really. Then I found out there was someone else, too. She's the one to tell his Girlfriend. And He thought I was trying to screw him over and right now we're trying to fix the friendship. I don't know though, I was really hurt in the situation, but telling his girlfriend won't make the hurt go away. It's drama I don't need, I guess I don't say anything? - 5 months ago
NO. Let him make the decision what he wants to do. If you don't mind being the other girl on the side then do nothing and continue to see him. If you drive the other girl off then he's going to make you his rebound girlfriend. Rebound relationships never work. You would end up losing him forever. Talk to him and let him know what you feel for him. He should already know that what he is doing isn't fair to his current girlfriend and when he finds out that you really like him then he'll have to choose which way he wants to go.
For Your Information: if he is seeing you on the side that means things aren't going that well with him and his girlfriend. Give it some time and see what your man decides to do next.
Well he knows I know now, and he hasn't tried anything since. I honestly do think he cared for me, but it just hurts that he lied. I don't want him to do that same thing to be later. If he couldn't be honest with me now, how can he be if we ended up together? Thanks for your opinion though, made me think. - 5 months ago
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