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I have this crush on this girl for the past few years

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phill (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I know my personality pretty well I'm sensitive and emotional and kind a shy I've known this girl for such a long time and when I had the chance but I didn't take it. I knew her very well, we were best friends but now she changed, we don't talk much. I want to ask her out but I'm to afraid what her answer will be. I've had other dates before but this is different I need some advice please.

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2909028 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
I know what it feels like! Just be happy AND be down to earth. Let her see this then when she seems interested ask her out! If she says no act disappointed but make her think she lost something great.
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Falken16 Which she did of course (lose something great) ;-) - 2 months ago

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thegirlishopeless (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
If she really is worth it, then you should definitely ask her . See if she'll meet up with you and catch up on what's been going on in each others' lives . The worst that can happen is she says no . You should definitely go for it .
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Cotton-Candy-Summer (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Ask her out on a casual, "let's catch up with each other" type of interlude. Then go from there. When you're with her, make sure to make plans to meet again. Then ask her out.
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rocket (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
One of my guy friends just got engaged to someone he knew in highschool but hadn't seen for almost 5 years before he asked her out! Go for it!
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sodar (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no and you'll be embarrassed for a little while. Is she worth that risk? ;)
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Question Asker She is worth the risk she's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen I don't want to ruin it I can take things pretty harsh I'm a sensitive guy. - 8 months ago
 

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Steven08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I'm telling you from experience (when I was younger) start talking to her again and throw yourself out there, no point in being afraid of her answer because your gonna hear it either way (unless you just plain don't do nothing about it) but think of it like this, she's either gonna like you or she isn't. You can't always get the answer you wanna hear but at least you know , its the not knowing that's gonna kick you in the face so my advice would be what I said above, hope it helps
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fastboxster (Age:25 to 29)      When: 5 months ago
I'd say ease into it. Try to get her to spend more "friends" time together first. Ask her to join you for coffee, lunch, or maybe even a movie. If she's not up for that she's probably not likely to be interested in you for more.

Since you haven't seen her in a while, just call her up or send her an email and ask her how things are going. You're motivation for the call is just to catch up. What's going on in her life? Is she even single still? Think of a bunch of things you'd like to know about her. Try to recall your favorite times with her in the past and see if you can get her to think about them as well. Keep the conversation relatively short (10 to 15 minutes) and if the conversation is going smoothly, tell her you'd like to get together to catch up. See how she responds.

Good luck!
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