I really like my girlfriend a lot, she is all I think about, and during songs I can't stop thinking about her, when I'm with her my heart pounds really fast and she makes me feel so good inside, and I know I don't want to scare her but when is a good time and how do I tell her I love her without scaring her or does she feel the same way? How can I find out how she is feeling without asking her?
Don't over think this. Really. Next time you are together, just look her in the eyes and say "I love you." Give her a hug. That's it. Then go back to whatever you were doing with her, and try to act normally. If she wants to say anything about your declaration, either right away or later, she will. Don't force or pressure her, and don't act disappointed if she doesn't respond right back. You told her how you feel. Now give her time to figure out how she feels. Good luck!!
Well on this subject I hate to say it but there is only one way to find out say it to her and tell her she doesn't have to say it back if she doesn't feel the same but if she does GREAT and if she doesn't give her some time and just enjoy being with her.
About two months, and she is all I think about, and I can't stop thinking about her, and when I'm with her my heart keeps on pounding faster and in a good way!! what do you think? thank you!! - 7 months ago
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Then say it. If she doesn't say it back it doesn't mean she doesn't love you just don't force her to say it back! But make sure that you are positive that you won't regret it later in life. - 7 months ago
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I don't intend to sound like a bad guy,but from my experience two months is two soon to say things like I love you,If you tell her that she will run,I have been in your shoes with many different women,and they all became distant the minute the word love was brought up,I know how you feel about her,but show it rather with actions instead of words