Since we moved together she has been more arrogant and less attentive. When we argue she down plays my feelings and tells me I act like a two year old. Most disturbing we went from two times a day to once every week and a half or so with being intimate. Not to mention she never wants to be close. She insists we are fine but I don't feel that way and I have made my feelings really clear repeatedly. What do I do?
Moving in together is a huge step. You can totally expect her to lounge around looking like crap, for your sex life to slow down and for you both to start nit-picking about stupid crap.
That said, you should also grow closer, more comfortable together and fall deeper in love. If you aren't getting the good with the bad, then it's a good thing you moved in together before you locked into this by getting married!
I agree. When you move in with someone they completely change. Everyone should move in together for a while before getting married just to make sure you can still stand to be around them when you guys are living together. - 9 months ago
These look like the first signs of a problem in a relationship. It all starts like this and if you don't do something now, you might end up going on different ways. At times, even if you do something that still happens but you can say you at least have tried. Talk to her up front. Tell her that you feel some things have changed and how you feel about them. The key in such talks is that you shouldn't be inquisitive, judgemental or defensive. All you have to do is to control the energy of your voice. She would be more willing to talk about things, even if they might be hurtful. Though a relationship is the ultimate point you can get on a personal level, don't take the things she says personally. Try to understand her points from her perspective. After all, it could be something you have done that made her give you the cold shoulder. And some things just don't work. Admit those possiblities and accept them upfront and try to be understanding before talking. That should make you a lot more comfortable while talking.
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