How do I get girls to stop from just being my FRIEND also how do I prevent it from happening?

stop being s0o0o0 nice dude and let it be known that you want more then just a friendship then they will take you seriously as boyfriend material

I usually put guys in the friends zone for a couple of reasons; 1) I am just flat out not attracted to them. 2) they are a friends ex or have some other similar tie-in. 3) They are attractive, but I just don't feel any spark with them or I'm not looking for a date right now.

These girls may assume that you are "safe" and not looking for anything but friendship because you listen to all of their problems and talk without hitting on them. Most guys will hit on a girl or say something to show her that they are interested. Also, they may assume you aren't into them or girls in general. This happens with guys who have a lot of girl friends. We don't assume he's a ladies man, we assume he's gay.
But good luck to you, and don't be afraid to make it known to one of these girls how you feel. She will probably appreciate your honesty.

Hmm. Good question.
you may think it's obvious, but it's probably not.
MAKE IT KNOWN! Tell them straight up how you feel!
don't be afraid of the results - you'll be glad you finally got them - whether they're positive or negative.

You know Alpinestar, maybe these girls you end up being the friend to, has no idea that you see them any other way. Every girl you know is your friend, well pursue someone else. You say that you want these girls (your female friends) to take you seriously. If you are being placed as a friend to your current female friends, it is probably because they don't look at you in "that way", but their are way to many girls out there that would look at you in "that way". You have to be upfront about you intentions, talk, compliment them, dominate the conversation in a way where you don't scare her off, but you make it known that you are interested. If the girl has a lot of baggage, (you know, problems with her ex, or feeling inferior for some reason) try and stay away from that, because you will end up, listening, and advising, before you know it, they will love you as a friend forever. If you haven't told these female "friends" of yours that you are interested in them, maybe you should, if you have, and got the "I see you as a friend" speech, then be their friends, the next girl that catches your eye, listen for a minute if they seem to be grieving about a current or past relationship, move on, if you find one who is single and positive, and available, go for it. Good Luck.

Next time one of them comes crying on your shoulder, the ball is in your court dude, they are giving you the invitation. Remember, a womans answer lies between the lines dude. Next time one of pouts in front of you, take her by the hand and take her to your room. But take it slow with her, that what they are looking for. Softly kiss her and if she pulls away, then just tell her it is ok, that this is between the two of you and no one will ever know , I promise and just start kissing her again. Dude, I can be no mentor, because I have found a girl I would like to f*#@, but she is a challenge. Teasing is the way to go. Don't be to aggressive, but just touch her on the ass or tits and walk away, women dig this game. Let them come to you. Put a little anxiety in it. It makes them wwwweeetttt faster! Or try gently scratching them on the neck and back, you'll need a towel for her for this one! Don't be afraid, the worst they could say is no. Look , if they stop you from gently scratching their back, or neck, gently touch them from the face to the breasts, and leave. You have left the door open for who knows what. GO FOR IT! Let me know what happens! Remember, read between the lines, women never tell you upfront what they want and how they want it, its all a game,their answer lies between the lines dude, do not forget. Once you pick up on their language, my god, you'll be avoiding their calls! Good Luck, give me the details when you get it!

Fella,

Remember the movie forest gump. He is always a #2 man, but guess what.

Don't worry man, YOU THINK LONG, YOU THINK WRONG.
YOU THINK WRONG, YOU PLAY WRONG.
YOU PLAY WRONG, YOU ARE WRONG.

Then if you are WRONG, why would she wanna be with you right?

I wish you well on this man, take care

First the bad news: attraction is not a choice. The good news: you can learn to generate attraction. What helped me was Magic Bullets, The Venusian Arts Handbook, and Art of Seduction by Greene. Great reading material that will change your life. Sperm Wars is another one that gets my recommendation but is more background info than anything. If you want to see where those books can take you lifestyle wise, check out The Game by Neil Strauss. This stuff will change your life!

I was in the same position for quite a few years. I got tired of the you'll find yourself a nice girl' line and like you, I was always a friend. The first thing you have to do is get the attitude of 'i don't give a damn. ' So when I got tired of girls just looking at me like a friend, then I started throwing sexual comments at them. For example, when a girl started complaining about her life and such, then I would say, 'well, best thing to do to forget about your problems is to have some wild sex. And guess what---today is your lucky day as I'm here to serve your needs. ' Now, the girls at first thought I was joking, and they would laugh; however, they were also shocked by my statement, so now a new door had been opened, and the subject turned from their problems to sex. Of course, my personality is also known for saying outrageous things, but eventually these girls that saw me as friends, ended up confessing that they just wanted a fling, and well, we ended up hooking up.

So my moral of the story to you is, stop being nice, say some outrageous funny things here and there, and see how the girls react. Oh yea, when they accuse you of being a pervert, then you turn it right back to them and say, 'oh please, as if you have never fingered yourself. ' Again, my purpose was to keep them on a sexual topic, and if they responded positively, then I knew that they were a possible target to try to hook up with. I did many other things, but you need to come out of your 'listening mode' and start your attacks as the girls tell you their sobbing stories. The more you nicely sit and listen to girly problems, the higher number of female friends you'll get. Attack and have no regrets.