Are they the right one?

I've never been married but from what I have seen from other couples is that their love for each other can last so long as the two of them find ways to make it last. Oh and the butterflies go away after being with someone for a long time. They come back during certain peaks in life such as marriage proposals, surprised moments, romantic gestures, etc. I have never believed in "the one" or soul mates because every woman I have ever been with showed me a side to each of them that defines them uniquely. For example, there was once a woman I could see myself being forever with because she enjoyed life so much that she was a naturally happy person. The reason we aren't together is because she is the most spoiled person I have ever met and if we stayed together I would have to take on a couple more full time jobs just to keep up with her lifestyle.

When you find the right one your heart will let you know. And as long as you keep communication flowing and things interesting and alive in your relationship then it can feel like new every day.

It's hard to describe, but I think you just know! I have been with my fiance for four years now and I still get butterflies in my stomach as I did when we first started dating. There is just something about the way he looks at me, hold me and makes me feel safe that is just a great feeling.

I think you know when you have the right person, when you can just be yourself, as stupid and silly as you want. I act like an idiot and say dumb things randomly and my fiance just thinks it's cute. One of my good friends would say you know you have the right guy when you can burp and fart in front of him. Not too sure about her theory, but there is definitely a feeling of openness and wanting to share everything with that person.