So we have been dating 3 years. 7 months and I have never cheated on him we have been living together for 2 years ans 7 months and he told me he trusts me but when I go to work (I'm an office assistant) he's like oh you wanna work there to talk to boys and blah blah. And I was like omg I love you I don't wanna lose you your my soul mate why can't you trust me. Last year he cheated on me after I had a stillbirth and lost our twins. I was devastated and I stuck by him because I love him and what is worth keeping if it doesn't take work. N I don't believe in revenge or any of that bad stuff to break someones' soul so how do I make him trust me. I need to know help please.
I believe that if your boyfriend can't trust you than it means he is or has done something that would cause you not to trust him. EX. He has cheated so since he has he thinks you will to. When a person does something wrong they will start thinking their boyfriend or girlfriend will do the same cause he or she was able to do it. Trust is a big part in a relationship, so if he can't trust you than you need to decide what to do.
I know but doesn't that mean he should trust me after me not cheating on him like all this time why would I cheat now. So what do you think I should do - 6 months ago
It doesn't matter that you didn't cheat on him. It is his guilt eating away at himself, forcing him to think that the only way for you to get even would be to cheat on him. Even though you forgive him and wouldn't cheat on him, he doesn't fully believe you. You need to be real with yourself. Either he moves on with this issue or you move on with finding a trusting partner who respects you. - 6 months ago
He's insecure and has issues. Although you do as well. You both need to go your separate ways and reevaluate what you want from a relationship with the opposite sex. His seems to be more about physical gratification, but that's just my gut instinct from reading a post on the internet. Get some space between you two and get some perspective on life.
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