Why do guys like to touch their misses when they're asleep

wow.my ex just told me when we broke up (for other reasons) 'dont have sex while your new girlfriend sleeps".i did it for a couple of reasons and SHE DIDNT tell me she had a problem with it

1-it led to her waking up and making love with me
2-i was horny and drunk, and she never put out much anyways,and never complained, had I known it bothered her I wouldn't of done it

Are you serious?

Have you never heard of rise and shine bj's

He was probably trying to get the ball rolling for you to do it to him next time.

If that was the ONLY reason for which you broke up with him, it sounds a bit too easy to let go off someone. Is there anything else behind the story?

There's this thing, they refer to it as 'sexsomnia.' It mostly affects men, but women, as well.

My ex used to roll over and initiate sex with me in the middle of the night. And completely never remember it in the morning. Sometimes it'd wake me up, sometimes it'd wake me up when we were already going at it, sometimes neither of us would wake up and just realize it in the morning. Either way, what difference does it make? He's someone you, obviously -- considering you have a child together, have sex with on a regular basis. Sooo, he sexually sleepwalks? You got yours. He got his.

Silly. Sorry.

ive heard of heaps of people who do that to turn on your partner in the morning. its not abuse its pure muking around, so you could wake up in the middle of something amazing. he probably does love you- I think your over reacting. the boys love it when they wake up to their lovely girl fooling around down there. its pretty stupid reason to leave him especially if you have a baby together.

What a great way to wake up ! He may have been trying to mess with your dreams a bit before waking you up to "do the deed". I'll bet that would have been one great dream. OR, he may have been hoping you would be so aroused that you would just join in the fun.

You should have tried to wake him up in the same manner some morning. That's what I would have done. Sounds like a cool way to let someone know you are crazy about them.

You know I was watching tv the other day and I heard that it is a...not a disease I don't think, but a problem for a lot of men, these sort of sexual problems happen while sleeping. I'd call a doctor.

Is feeling and touching your partner sexually abusing? When I was with my boyfriend I used to touch him whilst he slept and vice versa. It shows he loves you and fancies you.

I think that's sweet in a way. Think of all the places he touched before he got to whereever you found him. He would have played with your hair and touched your face and watched you sleep. Maybe he was trying to pleasure you so you'd have a good wake up call. I think you are taking this overboard and need to figure out why you are really upset.

I am very sure that you are hurt by what happened and you have a right to be upset. I do not agree that breaking up is the answer. You had a child with this man, you should try to be a bit more understanding and take the time to see where he is comming from. you need also understand that he was in bed with you... So again, keep in mind that he is trying to be close to YOU and at one point he was special enough to have a baby with. At least give him the opportunity to explain and if he is willing, try to work on the problem. That's what you would want if you were the one making the mistake!

That was a STUPID and PETTY reason to break up with him - Men don't feel "connected" to their girl unless they are intimate.

The better way to handle it would be to talk to him and make him understand how that made you feel...especially with a baby!!!