I love my boyfriend to bits we have been together for 5 years. Yet at times such as now where he is going back to education yet I am looking for a job so I am willing to move for the job yet it is selfish to do so? We both have planned to move out together as we both get okay with our parents but have always wanted our own space cos its nicer to.
I'm not quite understanding the problem here. How far away is the job? Is there not a school near your job, that he could go to and complete his education? Are you worried you two can't do long distance for a little while, to ensure the rest of your lives together? It's not selfish to think about your future and possibly moving for a job. It is selfish if you move without discussing it with him and see how he feels about it. At the same time it would be selfish for him to keep you near him if opportunities for you are afar. If you love him, and he loves you as much as you say, then a little distance won't hurt the relationship. You need to not only sit down with him but also both sets of parents and decide what is best for y'all. Your parents will have great input, but the choices will be your boyfriend and yours.
I can't imagine being with someone for five years and being willing to move away from them for a job. Even if it was the job of my dreams I wouldn't want to go unless they were coming with. I don't know that it's selfish exactly, but it might reveal something about the relationship. Do you love him? Are you happy?
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