I've had a class with this senior the whole year but I actually started talking to him on a class trip because we got stuck at the airport for 8 hours & we became friends. We arrived at our hotel at 5 am & had to get up by 10am. That night when we came back to the hotel after sightseeing that day we were allowed 2 go swimming but I didn't want 2 go because I was so tired. He noticed that I wasn't going 2 the pool & told me he wanted 2 walk me 2 my room & he did. While we were walking he asked me why I wasn't swimming & I said that I was just so tired that I wanted to sleep. Well the next day we went to breakfast together because its school rule that you can't be alone. I went to get a table & didn't really plan on buying anything because I was still tired & he comes back with a cup of coffee & says,"here maybe this can help you not to feel so bad and sleepy. I really want you to have a good time here" throughout the trip we became closer friends & he always gave up his seat to specifically me whether it was on the bus or in waiting room in a restaurant &my feelings for him grew. Back at school we kept talking esp. During our class together. One night from a concert at our school he put his jacket around me & gave me a ride home. I've never felt this deeply before & whenever I see him around school I get breathless & my heart beats faster. I think my friend might have told him how I feel about him & that's not how I wanted him to find out & I feel like that ruined my chances because now wen I want to talk to him, he might think I'm talking to him just because I like him & sometimes its awkward between us like when we're walking in the hallways & he sees me & I can tell that he's looking at me & I just hurry away because I'm scared to talk to him & possibly get my heartbroken. It hurt so much to be around him & only be friends so I tried ignoring him but that hurt way too much too so I kinda dropped that. He's graduating in 10 days but he's going to a college like one minute away from our high school. I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm so scared of getting my heart hurt. I was even hurt when I found out he was taking someone to prom even tho he told me he asked her before he met me & that he had no feelings for whatsoever & that she was just a friend. That feeling was probably one of the worst in my life. I never knew love could be that strong - whether its in joy or pain. I never want to hurt that way again, & being rejected would hurt worse. I'm so scared but I feel so strongly about him. I don't know what to do. I really care about my academics but I've chosen to hang with him or talk to him on aim or other things like that instead of studying or doing my how well or preparing for an important essay. I don't want to ruin our friendship because once you cross the line & tell someone you like him, you can never truly go back to being normal friends. My feelings are eating me up & I don't know what to do. He's 3 years older than me but I don't care. I think I'm in love with him but should I tell him
Update: i kept putting off telling him & last night he IMed my friend& told her to tell me not 2 like him anymore (HE KNEW) he's been "waiting for me 2 tell him but hasn't" .another girl told him her feelings & "stole his heart" I'm heartbroken & full of regret.
2 months ago
The pain of not knowing in this case will be far greater than knowing. It sounds like you might have a good chance at getting a happy ending, but even if you don't, you can relax because you won't have to push yourself so hard anymore.
Be honest with who you are, your feelings, and what you believe in. If it doesn't work out, then that just means he wasn't right for you. Any girl as passionate as you deserves the best, and this guy sounds pretty good.
Wow that is some intense stuff um you like really never asked a question just on should I tell him. And after I read that differently tell him or it will break my heart if you don't tell him. So yes plzz do. If not for me plzz
I've actually went through that and it feels really bad I get you. But all I can tell you is try to tell him little by little. Start by asking him who do you like,etc. Ask him things that I'll lead up to you telling him that you like him. But don't just keep quiet it doesn't really help. Been through it and lived it. Do what you heart tells you. Think about the positive things that can happen if you do tell and not the negative thoughts. With nothing else to say ill let you go.
I think you should tell him, he obviously sounds like a really sweet guy, and even if he didn't have feelings for you, he'd let you down easily. What else do you have to lose? It's not like if you tell him, you'll be stuck facing him at school everyday embarrassed. He's going. But also maybe he too has feelings for you and you two could make it work because you could still see each other. Worse case scenario: he doesn't like you like that, and so you're a little embarrassed, and you continue being friends. It won't hurt to try:) GOOD LUCK
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Er... right, my ideal first date would be a nice meal somewhere nice. This would hopefully be a good setting where we could chat and get to know each other. We could then go somewhere for a walk to carry on the conversation. The night would then end with me walking her home and with any luck a plan for when we could meet up again
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date would probably know my life story *blush*. No, she would know exactly what she wanted to know about me. She would hopefully notice that I'm not a guy that expects sex on the first date and that I really enjoy listening to what a girl has to say
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