I have an awesome Girlfriend that I love a lot, but frankly I get jealous quite a bit and can't seem to help it, she has lots of guy friends almost more guy friends then friends that are girls. Also she has many guys that like her. Now I know that she is not going to cheat on me or run off with another guy but I really can't help being jealous when she hangs out with sometimes only guys or just talks or hangs out with guys in general, especially when she hangs out with guys that like her. I know it is only out of her nature because she is extremely nice to everyone not to mention forgiving. But is there anything I can do about this jealousy because it is getting on my nerves, and hers too. Or anything I should tell her? Or for her to do?
You also have to understand, girls seem to get along better with guys, more than they do with other girls. Girls can become viscious towards other girls, and guys won't be hitting on her boyfriend. They also give great advise when a girl asks :)
Just mention it to her. See what she says. No one's telling you to tell her to ditch her male friends. State your opinion by letting her know you love her so much, and you're afraid of anything happening, cause you know what a man's intentions are. But also let her know your trust in her.
Ask of out of respect to try not to talk to so many men around you (like on the phone or whatever), due to the fact you would rather her be talking to you. Her boyfriend..
This is cute. Assure her that you trust her with all your heart but jealousy is a trait you can never give up. Some people say they never get jealous but that's only because they've never loved something enough to cause jealousy. Me and my boyfriend are the same, I had pretty much double male friends then female but when me and him got together he became jealous so I began to drift away from all of them cause it would cause fights between us. Now I barely talk to any of them, quick hi's and bye's if we see each other at the shopping centre but he even gets mad about that. I think jealousy is a beautiful thing but it can also turn really nasty. Just try your best to explain to her where your coming from.
cisnerosmatt
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Also take the time if you really love her, to realize that she is with you and she goes home with you not anyone else! Let everyone else WANT her but you have to realize that you HAVE her, and don't let that go! Especially over something like jealousy. Take a look at the bigger picture, who's gonna be there 3-5 years down the road or even more? YOU! So just talk to her about it try to see where both of ya'll are coming from and see how she feels!
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