Is this wrong?

I think that when you get to the point where you're compromising your self worth for someone who's not willing to give you a chance despite sticking by her through thick and thin, I'd just get over her. It seems like she's just stringing you along and isn't sure if she wants you as a friend or a bf. She likes the fact that you shower he with this attention and the thought of not having that makes her insecure. If her drama is causing you to be unhappy and aggravated, you did the right thing by ending your friendship. You can't be around someone who uses you for attention knowing full well that he has feelings for you.

It's natural for you to doubt yourself in ending the friendship as you may still have some feelings for her. As painful as it was ending things, it was a healthy decision. The last thing you want to do is watch her going out with someone else and her going back to you for relationship advice. You deserve better than that and remember that in order to have a relationship, both parties have to reciprocate the same feelings. If you're finding that it's all one way, then move on.

I think you should talk to her about it one more time. Tell her you want to date her and if she doesn't want to then tell her then you can't be friends with her anymore because it hurts to much to be around someone you care about so much but could never be with.

See what she says. I wouldn't end the friendship without one last talk.