I let a girl knew that I really liked her. Unfortunately, she said she was not interested in me. I kept chasing her by coming to her class just to say 'good luck' whenever she had an exam. After one year, I found enough courage to ask her to be my friend, and she accepted it. While we were friends, I sent her a joke on weekend, opened door for her in school, and often asked if she had a bad day. After three weeks, I sent her an email letting her know I still liked her more than a friend, and she wanted to end our friendship. Was I pushy? If yes, then how can I fix it? and how would you feel if you were her?
Yes you were being very pushy. She accepted your friendship as a friendship. You just laying your feelings out there directly like that was the wrong move. You probably should have just asked her if there was any possibility of her ever liking you more than a friend and if not then that was fine with you, you just think she's really nice and pretty and wanted to know. And that you hope the question wouldn't effect your friendship and maybe she may not have ended it like that. She probably feels that that's the only reason you wanted a friendship with her was to try to get her to like you. So you may not be able to fix it.
Not so pushy as scary. I'm not trying to be rude at all, but if a guy was hanging around me and doing those nice things all of the time and we were just friends, I would be a little freaked out. Have an I don't care attitude. Act like you don't want the girl. If you don't want her then she might want you..... The whole chasing her to class part...bad. Sending her the joke...good. Opening the door for her...trying too hard.
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