Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated on him?

You should tell him I would hate to have my girlfriend cheat on me then tell weeks later or to find out from the guy who cheated with her (in which case I would tell her to go to hell get a gun and shoot the life out of the guy) tell him ok its not his fault you cheated on him even as much as you want to blame him its your fault and you gotta face the firing squid. just tell him if its meant to be he'll give you a second chance and you shouldn't have even let your boyfriend inside.

Sorry but that is damn low. I'm very sorry to say this but I hope you have your heart broken by the guy you really and truly believe is the man you want to spend your life with. What you did was slutty and even thinking about hiding it is sick. You need to confess and let him say and do what he feels it right. If he tells you to go to hell you go. If he finds it in him to forgive and forget then you can work around it.

honest is the best policy.

it could come back and bite you in the ass later on

DON'T TELL HIM.

jesus, just jump your new boyfriends bones.

The cool thing about dating an unexperienced person is you get to teach them how to have sex. just how you like it. Sex marionette- move his hands, feet,.etc.

Yes you should tell him. You screwed up, and you cheated on him, and he should break up with you. He deserves to know. You don't deserve this guy. You're making excuses and making it sound like it's his fault!

yes, you should tell him. It sucks to do that, but you gotta face the music. It's not fair to your current boyfriend to be with someone who is not faithful. And for the future, you might want to consider developing a little control over your sexual impulses. your excuses that you present are not acceptable. You also need to learn that communication is the key to success. Have you ever considered why your current boyfriend is not being sexually active with you? You should have discussed this with him, and explained your needs and expectations before you did what you did. Your act of cheating was a selfish and inconsiderate betrayal of trust your current boyfriend probably did not deserve. You will have an impact on how this guy treats women for a long time now because of your actions. It's situations like these that make social interaction between genders more difficult than they already are. so yeah.you made the mistake. now do yourself a favor.and him as well and be honest with him. So he can go find someone who is deserving of his love. Sorry to be harsh, but I have no tolerance for infidelity presented out of selfish impulse. - j

if this was just a one-time thing that you will never do again, then I don't think it's worth it to tell him because he'll be so upset and probably won't trust you anymore, and if you feel really bad about it and are never going to cheat again then it's better to just live with the guilt for a while rather than unload it on him to relieve yourself of it, you know?

never do to others what you wouldn't want done to you. I know it sounds cliche but its true. It hurts to be cheated on. I would love it if I finally found a guy that would wait for sex, it means he actually cares, and wants YOU not just the sex that goes with it. If I found the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my life with (one that knew he absolutely liked me and wanted me), I'd wait as long as he wanted, actually I'd make him wait longer. I hate it when girls do this, because it makes it right for guys to do it, we have enough cheating guys in the world. I understand you must really care about this guy, and I know how hard it is when it comes to ex boyfriends. but you have to tell the truth.you will get another chance if its meant to be, but if you really care about him you would never do that to him.

Have you ever been cheated on ? It hurts BAD, but it hurts worse when you find out too late. Tell him, be honest with him. Don't cheat on him because he is not sexually active. Maybe he's just not wanting to have sex with you right away because he wants you to think you are more than that to him. Maybe the guy actually has a heart. Don't do people wrong, it WILL come back on you, eventually. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to anyone, you should definitely not do it, ever.

ex boyfriend sex doesn't count. you slept with him already. don't unload this on your current boyfriend spare him from the imagery. keep this ugly event to yourself or to mom.