We liked each other for like three weeks, and I felt pretty manipulated and sort of used by him, so I broke it off, but ever since then he's always been really touchy with me, I have a boyfriend and he knows that, but the other day he held my hand, I was in shock and quickly pulled it away, but he just tries to do stuff like that all the time, and its like he's trying to get me. what should I do? what does this mean?
He is trying to maintain the illusion of control over you. You may have to tell him you don't want anything to do with him. First though, try letting him know how you feel and that, if he continues to behave that way, you will not be able to maintain any kind of friendship. You could also let him know that you know he doesn't respect you by the fact he doesn't respect the fact you have a boyfriend. If he wants a relationship with you, he needs to respect you, and treat you like the precious, lovely, wonderful lady God made you to be. God respects you, he should too.
Thank you! that really helped a lot :) - 3 months ago
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Stick to ur boyfriend right now I think its good that you got out of a manipulated relationship but be careful he might want you 2 have problem with ur current boyfriend he had his chance and he blew it don't fall for little games.
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