Big mistake?

There is no right or wrong time, age limit, etc. If you two have developed a close relationship
to begin with and decided it was time to move in-thats great!Now get back to the daily rituals.
You two will be seeing each other a lot more than before. I mean you actually have the same
address, etc. You both will be going thru adjustments. That's not bad. It is hard to live with
someone. It is quite different from staying a couple of nights or days together. You are also
combining two different lifestyles and that in itself is like night&day. Everybody argues and
that is okay. It is about finding the solution to the arguments together. The key word here is
together. Yes, you are individuals still, but you are learning to operate together. I think that
you should hang in there, still not sure, nothing wrong with counseling. I've known plenty of
unmarried couples that did this and it saved their relationship and made a more binding
commitment between them. Good Luck!

I think you moved fast but that's my opinion. I was brought up never live with someone until your married. A lot of people feel different. I would have waited about a year to move in if I was to move in with a boyfriend.

Okay 1st of all there is no right or wrong time to move in etc. It's hard adjusting to living with somebody and seeing them everyday. I went through a similar situation myself we ended our relationship well actually he did due to an argument. He now realizes he made a very stupid choice now that he is by himself. Listen people fight it's a part of life. You and your mate need to find better tools to deal with problems that arise. You two were in love enough to move in so relax and enjoy being together. Now you may need to work a little harder to make your relationship grow but don't give up in time you will see it was worth it! Good luck.

moving in with someone is always hard to see them at their best and worst every day and there is no way to escape it. like when your living apart. you need to identify the causes of the arguments and set out some productive talk time. or if that fails there is always relationship counseling. or asking a friend to mediate