Is it ok to see other girls if you have a girlfriend in a different state? Also when is it a good time to tell her I love her? I live in San Antonio and she is in Chicago. I am starting to feel like I do. Just don't know when it is a good time, so she won't think I'm too fast.
Well, for starters, if you are asking if it is OK to see other girls because you live in a different state then you definitely are not in love with her. love means the same thing as commitment, if you are interested in seeing other girls then you are not ready to be committed. you may feel that it is love because you live far away and miss her, but love is something much more deep then that.
s-kmccahon
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Don't keep anything away from her, like going off with other girls. Friends are fine, but I'm sure she wouldn't like it if you went on a "date" behind her back. If you really do love her you'll know when the time is right.
What? You wanna see other girls AND tell someone you love her? That strikes me as a definite either-or situation. Dude, figure out what you want first and then come back here. :-P
jjellybean
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
I answered your last question about how to stay in touch with her. Agree with the other girl above me. If you thought the relationship would last, you wouldn't be thinking about dating other girls. BUT you are so is it going to last? If so, don't see others, but if you don't then I don't see a problem with that. I'd do it lol....wow that sounds trashy! oops!
LovelyLuna
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
Depends on how committed to the relationship you are. If you think it's a possibility it will last forever, then no, don't see any other girls. I'm in the same situation. My boyfriend just moved to VA and I live in MS. We have known each other for a long time and are planning on getting married. We both know it's right, and we don't won't anyone else. I'm glad there is someone else out there in the same position as me. As for the I love you part, I believe that's something you have to decide. You'll know when the time is right.
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