I'm the kind of guy that says rude things at inappropriate times, disregards all social norms, and ignores the consequences of his actions. Throughout my life, from the time I got drunk and woke up in some woman's flower bush to the time I got charged with pety theft for stealing over 200 pumpkins (please don't ask) I always find myself in all sorts of trouble. (I still do well in school, I've been in honors classes since middle school, and have a gpa of 3.7 in college)
I've known this one girl since I was six. I've always had some kind of feelings from the moment I've met her. We've always been really good friends, her parents love me, I'm her little brother's hero (I'm a great role model), and I happen to care about her alot.
Recently I've grown to like her, even love her, and I think she might begin to feel the same way about me.
The problem is, she's the exact opposite of me. Not only is she a virgin (in college), but her record is squeeky clean. She has never had an alcoholic beverage in her entire life. In elementary school she was the kind of girl that got 100's on all of her test, bought apples to her favorite teachers, and stayed after school to clean chalk boards.
I was the kind of kid that stole lunches out of the lunch box, and ate glue during snack time (I had problems to say the least).
When I'm around her I am nothing but a gentleman (I always treat a lady with respect, unless she's a filthy pirate hooker), I never do anything out of hand. And am generally an all round good guy. When I'm around her I have no "ill natured urges" that would get me in trouble.
She's the only female I've ever talked to that has made me nervous. Seriously, whenever I talk to her I practically shit my pants.
The problem is, I think if she found of some of the things I've done (god forbid) she'd think I'm some sort of wild clown human. Also, I feel like if someday I do commit some sort of asinine act, she might drift away from me.
Most of the time I feel like she's to good for me. Should I still go for her, or let her find a better guy.
ok if you like this girl.u man up and tell her! let her know that you are willing to change ur evil ways and then stick to it! I suggest you stop being such an ignorant f***nut and finish school like the educated young man you are capable of being. trust that if you do she will love and respect you all the more for realizing you need to change. ur getting to old for all that high school shit. now go get ur girl!
I don't think you should waste your time wondering. Go for it. Maybe she's looking for her other half(like the guy opposite of her).and you shouldn't be ashamed of your past because we all make mistakes. If she really cared about you she'd like you regardless anyways. The worst that will happen is that she won't want to be with you.
okay hun, just because you've done a whole bunch of horrible stuff which I don't understand hwy you would when your an honor student. well people just wanna have fun and pumpkins interesting crime never heard of that before lol okay I'm done getting to the point. you should go for if you can handle the fact that she's a good girl. just because she's squeaky clean doesn't mean she's perfect she just has morals she makes mistakes just not the same ones you do. I'm sure she believes in I mean if she's been your friend for all this time think about it. DEFINITELY GO FOR IT MY FRIEND! but please for goodness sake don't cheat on her because she's a virgin and chooses to wait! because if you chose that path gotta stay committed to that path! Speaking of dirt whores you still have to respect them even though they don't seem to respect because that will show you are a very classy guy. the way to do that is to tell them respectfully to keep, their hands to themselves. no need to get nervous just be yourself
She probably already knows how you are if she went to school with you so I doubt anything you say would be a surprise. Two things could happen. You will corrupt her or she will change you for the better. In my experience, it will probably be more corruption.
awwwww! the way you talk about her sounds so adorable! And no! don't hold yourself back! Go for it, and tell her how you feel. If you know her family (parents and brother) that obviously means that you two are close, possibly almost best friends? and best friends fall in love all that time! And remember the saying "opposites attract"! Go into things slowly though, because maybe if she hears everything at once it might scare her off. =/ I doubt it thought, the way you talk about her sounds so genuine! =D And show her how much you mean everything. Do something special! Goodluck!
Grow up and stop being an attention whore. All the stealing and stupid inappropriate remarks should've been out grow during your juvenile high school guy stage. Stop acting out and start acting like a normal person, let alone educated.
Look, you've now found a girl who is legit and could possibly change your 15 year old rebellious behavior. You'd be stupid not persue someone who brings out the side you want to be let alone put up with you "i'm a rebel" attitude.
You are unsure about letting her go because you are afraid to change.
It's okay to let her know of your past and talk to her about how you'd like to change. Talk about the light you see her in and if she's worth it, she will accept, respect you for your honesty.
OR
You could continue your reckless self and be like every other idiot who gets drunk and goes on and on about beer pong.
Besides, you know you're a good person and she sees that? Why lie to yourself and depict yourself in this "wild guy" light.
from the looks of it, you should go for it and tell her how you feel at least you know the awkwardness won't be there because you've known her for so long (then again who knows) but you ain't gonna know anything until you try
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