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Should he move in ?

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hetha3 (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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I'll be 18 in a few weeks and me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months.

next year I will be moving in with my best friend for my 2nd year of college.so she thinks it would be better if he moves in for financial reasons.and I'm not sure.i mean by then we would be together for a year and 4 or 5 months. .is that enough time to be with someone and move in?

I should add that he's over all the time and so is my best friend and he never bothers me.

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genig (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Hmmm I'd say If you feel hesitant about it no. Also, how much older is this guy?
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Question Asker He is the same age as me - 24 days ago

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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: 2 months ago
The fastest way to become enemies with your friends is to move in together.
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Question Asker Well I can't move out by myself I don't have the money for that - 24 days ago
 

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11love01 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I think it takes A LOT to move in together with a boyfriend. Moving in is like another step into your relationship. It takes a lot of compromise. And also, if you move in this early with him, I think by then you would see each others' flaws and this will cause some huge arguments over little things.
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sweetvalle03 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
You all need more time, just the fact of the matter that you need to go on here to ask answers your questions. Don't do anything your not ready for. For the good of both of you.
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Rowdy83 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Value your private time and a couple of questions to consider:

1.) Once he does move in, if you all break up, are you still going to be best buds and okay with the fact he may have other women over during other relationships?

2.) Is your roomy okay with the idea of the nights you and your beau are going to have arguments? (I see you says he doesn't "Bother" you, but all couples have spats.it's part of life)

3.) What's the rush? Like I stated above -- value your private time.

There are perks of course, but once you get to that "level" where you're living together and such, you all start becoming more comfortable with each others habits and you may learn things about him that are completely disgusting -- or you may learn things about him you think are totally adorable.

Just sit down and take the time to think about it is all I'm asking. I didn't move in with a guy until I was almost 24 years old and we're not together anymore.anything can happen, but be smart about it. Good luck!
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Question Asker Thank you;) - 24 days ago
 
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