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What does he mean?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I cheated on my boyfriend last weekend when I kissed another guy when drunk. He didn't talk to me until yesterday when he said " I don't want to break up with you but I need some time for this to pass over. I really like you and I know we will have something in the future but for now I hope we can be friends. I just think we should take a break" So I showed that I was understanding, because I have to be( being the one who cheated). But I just don't understand if he was just trying to break up with me but put it nicely or if he wants to get back with me. Do guys use a "break" as a way of breaking up slowly?

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quantumdefender (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
what he means is, he wants to know if you can be faithful WHILE he gets over what you did.
if you cheat on him again while you both are apart.he'll know you don't love him.and that's it!
my advise, be on your best behavior till he cools off!
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TheSunGod (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Some guys might, but I really don't know in this situation.
The one thing I do know for sure is that you violated his trust, drunk or not, and it will take a long time for you to earn that trust back. Is he the kind of guy who believes "once a cheater, always a cheater"? If he is, or even if he isn't, he still needs time to cope with the violation of trust. You are lucky enough that he does seem to want to pursue a future with you, so don't violate his trust in you again or else you're finished. Give him the time he needs and just be there if he asks you to be.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
OOOo bad move. If I was in his shoes, I would definitely walk away from the relationship. If he's anything like me, looks like things are about to be done.
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justthefriend (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
sometimes, I think he just needs time to think about it and get over it, in the meantime I wouldn't hook up wit anyone AND I would still try to go out with him as "friends"
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Lilmissz (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Every time I get told that they just want to take a break I always find that they hook up with other girls then come back when they feel like it. I always take it as an automatic breakup. But You never know. He might be different. Just don't get your hopes up if he doesn't come back yah know?
Good luck
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