My girlfriend keeps ringing her ex

Well actually you do have a right to ask her why she still talk to her Ex. After all she knows you care about her. There has to be a reason as to why she talks to him so much, and it is your duty to find out why because it's only you that is feeling the pain. From the looks of it she either thinks you are ok with her talking to her Ex so she continues to do it. You should really open your mouth and ask her. If she really loves and care about you as much as you do about her then she would stop talking to him for good, and if she doesn't then she still has more feelings for him than she does for you, and is willing to risk losing the relationship with you for him. No girl should have any what so ever contact with their Ex, it only causes problems and heartbreak. Oh , and in this case it looks like you are going to be with the heartbreak if when you ask her why she talks to him and to stop talking to him and she says "no". Theirs is a saying "Don't love your partner more than they love you". The reason why they say that is because you get taken advantage of because you love them so much, also they feel you will let them do whatever it is that they want to do and you won't say nothing cause you don't want to lose them. If she loves you enough she will stop when you ask her and hopefully it stays that way and if she doesn't stop then you know what you have to do. There are so many other girls out their if she doesn't stop. Am pretty sure they will give you the love that you deserve. Talking to your Ex only leads to cheating, I don't want to sound mean but it's reality. So wake up. Find out what's going on with her and her Ex and then do what will make you happy even though it will hurt. If it comes to that. EX's can't be friends it only leads to cheating. Especially if they had sex before.

You know I really wouldn't worry about it. It's ok to be friends with an ex. And you are totally right if you ask her about it she will think you don't trust her. But you also have to ask yourself that question. Do you really trust her? Looking at her phone or her phone bill doesn't seem like you do. My boyfriend hangs out with his ex's all the time, they have even gone out of town together to hang out with old friends yeah it will always bug me but I trust him.

Has she told you she loves you before? And also did she leave the guy or did he leave her. I left my ex fiance of 4 years and still talk to him almost everyday. Honestly as bad as this is going to sound, I like talking to him because it's almost like I have a back up. If my new guy and I don't get married it's nice to know that I have someone I know loves me and I love them although my love for my ex is purely platonic. I actually talk a lot about my new man to him and he gives advice, biased advice of course but still advice.

I think that as long as she left him, that it's probably her just seeking the comfort of speaking to someone who is familiar and that she knows loves her.

At least for me that is why I talk to my ex almost everyday.

I think you have every right to ask her about this. If you don't feel comfortable about her talking to her, then just confront her nicely. She will understand. It's nicer to know then to think of the worse.

If she respects you and loves you, you could approach her nicely about it and tell her to please stop talking to him so much. My boyfriend nicely asked me to stop talking to one of my ex's and I stopped completely even though I thought it was a little bit of a crazy request. If your gf's talking to her ex, she could just be friends or she could have feelings for him. Talk it out with her.

I was with a girl for six years who never could stop talking to her exes. If there are children mutually things are COMPLETELY different so disregard the following. If there is a break up right before or at the beginning of all her relationships and she never is single it is definitely insecurity. It usually is inter conflict with a large amount of insecurity. In my case the person cheated first and then dumped the ex to be with the new guy. A pattern that transfers emotion from one person to the next. When they finally get over the ex , they wake up in a relationship with you, feeling insecure and needing new attention. This can take two years and you were the emotional support/transitional guy. She may cheat on you then because you were there during a time of her life that was sad and mournful. (Its not a happy time to remember) There may never be ONE man that makes this person stop being so insecure, It's all about attention. Most successful relationships don't have an ex lover around UNLESS there is children involved. If she NEVER talks to him when you are around what is she talking about? I bet she wouldn't like you to talk to your ex. If so, she may be paranoid that you would do what she does. IS SHE ALSO THE JEALOUS TYPE? If so. RUN don't walk! Funny thing, my ex is coming around 2 years later (after her marriage) She went to my former employer, just to give my friend the third degree about me (they always say they have old pictures to give you etc. ) and she knows my address. She could have mailed the anonymously I am SO glad I am not the guy who married her after she cheated on me (I am certain he doesn't know she is looking for me in another state) Separate vacations? I guess the honeymoon is over for her already! I never looked back or spoke to her since the day she cheated on me! This is the second time she has been on the prowl for me in two years. Its sick!

You should probably do it soon. Even if she doesn't have feelings for him now, she did at one time, which will make her more susceptible to falling for him again, since the foundation for a relationship has already been laid. Sure a couple times shouldn't worry you, but if they are talking all the time you need to stand up for yourself.