Should you ever forgive a cheater?

I think you shouldn't forgive cheating even if he or she is really sorry, what happened that happened you can't change it.

The rule is forgive them once, the second time they’re not worth it. But make it hard on her the first time or she will by no means learn.
That’s like saying once someone is a liar they’re always a liar. She could’ve cheated on you for a countless number of reasons, make sure she wants to back really bad or else she’s not worth it.

It depends on the relationship but usually my motto has always been once a cheater always a cheater - who knows times changed anyways!

I think people can change their ways, but it's not likely. And if they do, it's not because they felt "bad", they had to change as a person.

To me, once you cheat on me, I'm out. Maybe you can be faithful to the next chick but you lost your chance with me for good.

I think it entirely depends on the circumstances. If the relationship was going well and they cheated, then I don't think they should be forgiven. If the relationship was hanging by a thread and they lost control, then with time I think it's passable. It really depends on the people and the situation. But in most cases probably not.

FUCK THAT! if your girl cheats on you where's the trust?! out the damn window that's where, if she was willing to do that once why not do it again? you have to take everything into account if you ever feel like even THINKING about taking her back she could do it again. A girl who cheats on her boyfriend is a whore no matter what, they can dislike the answer they can defend themselves on it and put out arguments about what this guy did to them or girl but why sink to their level? if a girl did that to me she is a whore, same goes for guys no matter how much they beg you, you COULD forgive but the fact that you will never forget is what lets you make the right decision and if you don't then you deserve to be screwed over again

I have been cheated on in my last 7 relationships, so I know what it feels like. I have only cheated once in my life and that was with the last girl that cheated on me. I found out while we were together and I was just so furious. I was away with a friend to a lodge and met a girl there. Things happened and that's that. So like people say there are few cases that cheating has a reason. But for the other cases of my relationship, such cheating I would never forgive.

Give some thought to this shit. A girl is f***ing you and somebody else, while telling both of you "I love you".

Does this sound like a respectable thing to do?

I don't even care if a girl f***s multiple guys, within a FWB relationship because that's ok. The problem that would reside with me is the fact that she straight up LIED to her boyfriend. While coming back home with a mouth/vagina/ass full of some stranger's sperm.

A real woman breaks up with her boyfriend if she falls in love with somebody else.

A whore can have sex with multiple guys at once. But it takes a very SPECIAL kind of whore to cheat on her boyfriend.

Same goes for cheating guys

I don't subscribe to the once a cheater always a cheater philosophy. A person can realize their mistakes and can change their ways. Having said that, if he starts to cheat almost immediately, then he's not likely going to see the error of his ways for a long time, or at least until he loses someone who is extremely important to him ( or until he finds out how it feels like to be cheated on). But that's not a reason for payback. It will happen to him eventually.

It can be, depending on the state of the relationship
Often when there's cheating, something's missing in the relationship that led him or her to cheat

2/3 of the time it's not OK
about 1/3 I could understand

depends on the relationship
case-by-case basis