Why is it that women love us for who we are at the start then a year later tell us we need to change ?

Women get bored easily. If they're too used to something, they might start wanting to switch it up. It's bad, but I'm like that with people. Sometimes after being with one of my friends too much, I'll get bored with them, and just want to find someone different. You're not doing anything wrong (or maybe you are), but just ask what needs to be changed.

They're "always" (not really but many) looking to fulfill their image of a perfect relationship.which they will never have. But until they figure that out or settle with what they have or until they truly find someone they love they will keep searching. They do essentially get bored.