ok so I've been seeing this guy for quite a while now. but we're not going out. he always says he loves me and everything bit I know that he has many play around girls (if you know what I mean) like he likes to get with many girls at once without letting them know.and even though I know this I still like him.and now he told me he's staying true to me, but last time I heard him talking on the phone and I heard him say "hey do you know sarah, yeah she's my girlfriend" I was so devastated, I never dare ask him the truth, I'm just waiting for him to tell me, but he never does. even tho knowing all this I somehow still manage to like him so we met up again last time and every time he sees his friends it always seems like he ignores me and pretends he doesn't know me or something, then later he becomes the sweet guy again.its so annoying. he says he loves me but I don't know what to think.someone help me? advice comments anything will do .
He doesn't know what he really has. He wants to be the player to show off to his guys and talk about it later on as "just another piece of ASS"
He doesn't seem worth it at all. If he can't even give the truth to you now do you think honestly you'll ever get it down the road if you were in a relationship?
A girlfriend should be respected and have time for them. Not the I'm bored what are you doing thing. If he ignores you and doesn't make your presence aware then sweetie it was not supposed to be.
He doesn't know what love is. To him it something superficial, and maybe only physical/sexual. Romantic love is all of you physical, mental, emotional and spiritual, melding into one with someone else. The Bible is an introduction to the definition of love, since God is love, and the Bible introduces us to Him. If he can't love you through respect, commitment, affection, abstinence, trust, emotional intimacy, and spiritual openness, he doesn't really love you the way you should be loved.
If you want to continue getting crushed like that and getting disrespected.the the game as well. Date other guys and let it be known. He's a player and he's not changin his ways for you. So I suggest you get out of it. How old are you? Probably still young and learning. So these are mistakes your making you will learn from hopefully. There is nothing wrong with dating around like he is except he is not letting the others know about it and letting you and them think that your in a relationship with him. What if he's sleeping with all of them? Then what? How many diseases will he pick up and maybe give to you along the way. This guy is not a good guy. It's easy to be naive and not realize how naive your being. Wake up.there are soooo many good guys out there. He may be sweet at times.but um that's just so he can keep this game going. It's his bait and your gobbling it up and getting hooked on it so you look past the times he is an asshole and just wait for that sweet guy again. It's an act, he is a actor and your just his play thing. Find a good, handsome, successful, mature MAN! You seem like the type of girl that deserves one of those.
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