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Does long distance ever work?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 5 months ago
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the thing is we are just perfect for each other. everything in common and I really like him and I think he does too but he says he will never have a long distance relationship.and I think this will never work out and im kinda getting bored too. so should I move?.but what if he still likes me ? he'll get devastated if I move on.

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jtrechter1984
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jtrechter1984 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
The only time a long distance relationship truly works is when someone is going to be moving after awhile and they have the means to see you every now and then. Also it works really for people 24 on up (maturity level is completely different). Right now I wouldn't bother with it. I know its kinda exciting on the net but really it probably won't work. Besides there is a certain amount of trust that can't be built up unless you can meet with the person. For me I had one but that was because she went to school about 70mi away and I could drive down and see her on the weekends. Other than something like that I would stray away from long distances relationships and work on the local guys.
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TakingDownJersey
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TakingDownJersey (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
If he says he will never have a long distance relationship, then its not worth it. Because if that's the start who knows what would happen if you did really move there.

I know that long distance relationships do work because my bro and his girl met on Napster's chatroom and she lived in IL and he in NJ. Well 6-7 years later they are still together living in the same roof. (not married though)

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drstms (Age:36 to 45)      When: 5 months ago
You are only responsible for you. If God allows him to be hurt by you, it is for a reason. Don't assume you are the god of his life, you don't want the crap that comes with that. You are a precious, awesome gift in his life, for a time. If you stay too long, you become a curse and if you place more importance on him, than on God, you are making him your god.
God makes His plans clear in three ways: Circumstances, confirmation and intimacy. If the circumstances allow it, it may be of God, or not. If other people confirm it, it is growing in likelihood that it is God. If you invest time in your relationship with God, and He affirms it directly to you, it is Him. Don't assume because things seem good, that it is God, seek His input and He will let you know if you are made for each other. Otherwise, let him go and see if he finds you worth pursuing.
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sdsh08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
Dear. Anonymous Friend
I thing thAt you & him Can really Work Thing Out. Why because if you can take it from a girl with a similar problem in her pass as you should know no one is perfect but, it so seems as you 2 together is perfect right. well everything in common and you really like him & feel he as well does, but there is the problem ask him why he feels it won't work and if they sound good reasons 2 you then think about them maybe his right, but if you think that it workable then try it out nothing is imposable the 4-sure! *So don't get bored till you know that it's better as friends! & you'll find out u'r real answer u'r self there !
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