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You are only responsible for you. If God allows him to be hurt by you, it is for a reason. Don't assume you are the god of his life, you don't want the crap that comes with that. You are a precious, awesome gift in his life, for a time. If you stay too long, you become a curse and if you place more importance on him, than on God, you are making him your god. God makes His plans clear in three ways: Circumstances, confirmation and intimacy. If the circumstances allow it, it may be of God, or not. If other people confirm it, it is growing in likelihood that it is God. If you invest time in your relationship with God, and He affirms it directly to you, it is Him. Don't assume because things seem good, that it is God, seek His input and He will let you know if you are made for each other. Otherwise, let him go and see if he finds you worth pursuing.
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