Are my morals too high for women today?

You are definitely a rare kind of guy. I don't know many guys who wants to get to know a woman first, most guys want one thing, and they usually get it. Congratulations on holding your own and keeping your morals strong.

Hi I would like to say that I admire your attitude, you are right, there are not many guys out there who have morals like you do and I for one respect you for that.

How refreshing. you are a dying breed! In my experience, guys go from saying hello.to getting your pants off. you slow them down and they disappear. as if you're too hard work! and I'm talking a matter of days not weeks!

Keep being unique Mister your morals are good!

K x

sorry for my late reply,i had to take care of my parents.maybe you should apply a new strategy,change whenever you don't get a desirable outcome in any matter,specially in relationships,flexibility,open mindedness,and time,be patient,there is only one way to know ur significant other is worthwhile,and its to test him or her in many different situations,people act differently ,react differently in various matters,a polite and classy person could be rude if put in a situation shouldn't be put,so just remember you can never get to know a person completely,but you can get their style by way of their body language and eye contacts,dressing style,if always dresses the same way he has one personality,if puts on a suit for a stroll and baggy jeans the other day this person enjoys multiple personality characteristics,make ups,table manners,tastes in movies,video games,hangout places,and their friends,u wanna get to know someone?just see what his or her friends are.

Starting out as friends does not exist. If you've been with more than a couple of girls in your life, then you will know that it's very rare to move from friends to lovers. It's called the "Let's just be friends syndrome". You become the guy she will talk to about the guys she likes, or if you're a girl, you become the girl that he calls only as a last resort, referred to as "the meantime girl"

You say you are like that with every woman, I found that very hard to believe, I am sorry, I pretty much doubt that a woman you have told to that you just want to be friends sticks around when there are many other guys out there. Unless of course you're a super chick magnet looking guy with many extra assets.

I think if there is attraction between two persons, why should they just be friends? It doesn't mean they have to sleep with each other but start out as friends? And if you're dating someone, it doesn't stop you from being friends.

Getting to know someone also includes getting to know them sexually too. We've become a lot more open about discussing sex and the need for sex. It's fading as a taboo subject just as it should. I don't believe that there's anything immoral about that happening either.

You don't mention about how long it takes you to get to know someone. I can see not wanting to jump in the sack immediately with every girl you meet, but there should be some kind of reasonable timeframe for deciding when you are ready.

I've been with my Girlfriend for 4 years now and I'm still learning things about her. Does that mean I should still be waiting? I think not.