My wife wants to fully feminize me!

Question

In my everyday life I have a very stressful job where I am in charge of over 50 people and I am also firing and hiring people. I also have to be in charge of most of the household finances etc. Over the past few months my wife has brought up during passionate times, about feminizing me. She feels it would be a worthwhile distraction! A few weeks ago, she sat down with me and had me read some articles about feminization. I wasn't sure she was that serious! Now I must admit that I get turned on over the thought! She now wants to fully feminize me which consists of corset training to create a permanent feminine figure and growing real feminine breasts along with laser hair removal and eventually feminine facial surgery! She said I could basically transfer from my job to another location where people are far more tolerant about my new role. I researched it for a few long nights after work on the net. She was right about the location and what a great location too! She also felt she would become in charge and I could experience a new and rewarding life.  As a woman!  I spent almost a solid two weeks dwelling on this and every time I delve into the idea, I get very turned on! My question to the ladies here is...If you, as a woman were to convince your hubby to do this, would you find it a turn on and enjoy his new role as a Her?  What would you feel is the biggest advantage for the both of you as a couple?  Thanks! I wanted feedback because if I actually feel good about this (As I somewhat do) It all begins in a few days!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Forget all that "obey her" crying. Nothing good can come from it, that way of thinking is nothing but a trap.

If you are willing to do it, then do, for your own sake! Just do it for the right reasons. Go after your happiness - just be sure it's there where it lies. Get a taste of what it would be like that life, but do it alone, just by yourself at first (I know it's something completely different, but get the closest you can get as long as you feel comfortable).

And, in fact, maybe Kripter is right. That could be true, or she's trying to mold you - for her better (or worst) interests, for inflated ego reasons (as to how "sexy and powerful" she is and how she can "tame" you into a beta-male), or even she is tricking you for further blackmail material (for reasons above discriminated). After all, there is quite a handful of women who like to be put on a pedestal and be worshipped and show themselves as manipulative, controlling b****es.

For example: www(dot)brassiered(dot)com(slash)brassiered(slash)whatis(dot)html; that Karen Salmansohn (from that "man taming" guide of hers - yet, somehow, thanks to feminism, she managed to succeed. Why did I know it beforehand it would end like that?)

Just be sure you know her reasons for asking this, try to rationally see if there is not just some attittudes of you bothering her (and the other way around, also), and choose your way of life wisely, based on the right reasons - and the first one is what is good for you.

BlackSuperman · Accepted Answer

ur on yer own there... good luck with all of that...

NicoletteKomotov · Accepted Answer

That's wonderful. You don't need to go all the way publicly unless you want to though. Just delve into it and see what it brings to you. The fact that your wife is interested in it opens up a wonderful opportunity for you. There is a book on Amazon called, "Feminizing Men - A Guide for males to achieve maximum feminization." Some wives evidently have given it to their husbands to make their feminization easier and more complete. It's short, but requires the feminizing male to be diligent and do many things which will truly help them project a more feminine appearance and attitude. Good luck on your journey you lucky gurl!

creativeusername101 · Accepted Answer

I don't know if this post is a joke I'm somehow not getting, but there's something seriously wrong with the women telling you how great you are for even considering doing this. "love" isn't about changing a person to better suit your needs (or twisted wants).

Taylor_C · Accepted Answer

How horrible. You and your wife both need help from a mental health professional. What you´re trying to do is detrimental to your health.

Tiffanylc · Answer

Only if is what you want and your happy doing it

Kripter · Answer

I think your wife is a lesbian and feels unfulfilled with your relationship. But if you want to, go for it.

Billlewis · Answer

That sounds wonderful! Are you going to obey her?

artgorgeous · Answer

Hmm... I think she has some kind of sexual fetish about this. But don't fall for this. Try experimenting in bed, but don't do it to yourself in real life. This can be very serious and will completely change, and possible damage your life. She obviously wants to dominate you in this kinky way, but this is only a sexual thing and must not in any way change you as a personality, do not let her rule over you, because it may turn bad for you.

Mac-One · Answer

I would go along with wearing more more feminine styled clothing with her; especially matching feminine items. Would also agree to various physical changes. Would

poppy80 · Answer

You both should read together Female Led Relationships. This will help you both. Whatever you both decide, it is for you only. What other people think does not matter.

If you both are happy and having great sex go for it.

Delwyn · Answer

Im sure the novelty of it all is arousing you but I wouldn't do it. If your wife wants to feminize you she's probably grooming you for cuckoldry. She wants something new and possibly bigger. And if your into that kind of thing, God help you.

ThatGuy98 · Answer

That is not right man, you were created a man don't mess with that. Changing your gender just because you get "turned on" by it is a BIG mistake in my opinion

Hisexy · Answer

Consider yourself Very lucky just dive in and enjoy the ride. Be feminized will gibe you so much pleassure and feeling of sexy

keely · Answer

If you really love her, than obey her wishes. You have said that she has decided you should have your own breast, then obey her. You said she wants to corset train you, then obey her.

I really don't see the dilemma here.

srstafford · Answer

Run Forest...Run!

Donna1967 · Answer

To go all the way for her would be such a wonderful way to prove your love.  Such a romantic and fascinating idea for two people totally in love!

ChristinaFlirt · Answer

I love the idea. It's great that you feel good about her plans, I'm sure you will enjoy the journey.

deana22 · Answer

i wish i could find a woman like that i would jump at the chance to be feminized any women intrested leave a message here

JB19Girl59 · Answer

About five years ago I was in the same spot. I thought long and hard about. I finally made my choice. WIth my wife's help, I am now a real woman, except she had me keep my penis. We moved to a new town, I started the transition. I love being her girlfriend. I love wearing panties and three years ago she gave me a great present - a boob job. I love having her in charge of my sex life. In fact the sex is better now than when I was a "man." While I am primarily her sex partner, she does let me go out with some her female friends and lets me have a boyfriend. In fact one a year she lets me and my boyfriend go on vacation to Mexico. I admit it may not be for everyone, but becoming a woman is the best thing that ever happened to me.