Does she really love me again??

Tell her this because you said she didn't tell you about what she was feeling about the break up. she probably feels the same, she's probably thinking about what your thinking about.

Hiya mate. am sorry to hear of your pain. This sounds like a tough situation to be in as there are trust issues and anxieties. But I reckon that she really cares for you a lot as she has come back to you. The best thing to do is talk to her openly because a relationship can only work if both parties are happy, secure and open. Hope this helps. Take Care.

Listen to your girlfriend.she isn't ready, and truthfully she isn't in love with you. Take it from a 42 year old woman. She isn't.

1. The back and forth.
2. Can't say I love you.
3. She isn't ready yet.

The red flags are flying full staff and have been for a long time.you two are friends.no more my friend.

Sometimes young females just like the idea of having a boyfriend it doesn't mean they are ready for one.

Love is standing by each other through sickness, health, death do we part!

Right.you don't break up with someone you love because he is being an asshole or insensitive after the death of his brother.

Love makes you work through it together.

When you find a girl like that and you are able to equally treat the same.you've have found the one.not until then.

Good luck.

Okay, the first thing you need to do is acknowledge the pain you are feeling in your heart for her betrayal, and the loss of expectations. That is causing the walls and your obsession with intimacy with her. It is healthy to want intimacy with someone, it is not healthy to be obsessed over it. Our culture teaches us not to grieve. We are supposed to either "get over it," "deal with it," or "bury it." All of these are deceit based lies that have the goal of keeping us burdened by the pain for the rest of our lives.
If you experience a cut, you have the choice of ignoring it, or acknowledging it. If you ignore it, it will keep trying to get your attention, through various means; bleeding, soreness, infection, fever, gangrene, etc. If you acknowledge it, you can then evaluate and decide whether you want to cleanse and bandage it, see someone who can help you cleanse and bandage it, or go to the hospital where they can cleanse, suture and bandage it.
Soul wounds are similar in many ways. If we ignore them, they fester and infect every other relationship we ever attempt. If we acknowledge them, and that they hurt, we are able to let God show us where the wound originated, bring up the memory and help us grieve it thoroughly, so we are free from the pain, and able to release the coping mechanisms we have taken on to protect our selves from similar pain in the future. Christ is the Healer, and Lover, of our souls. He knows what needs to be grieved, when and how deeply. He leads us into the depths of our pain, so we can grieve the wounds, allowing our tears to irrigate them, while He cleanses them. Then He sutures them up and lets them heal. He is the surgeon who takes care of us when we are "stabbed in the back," "cut to the heart," or "sliced and diced."
Take time to grieve the past, allowing the infection to be cleaned out so you become blessed by her, or any other woman. If you feel desperate, you are still unhealthy, so ask God to show you where you need to go, protect you while you are there and keep you there as long as necessary. He will not take you any deeper than necessary, nor will He keep you there longer than absolutely necessary. He also never equates you to your behavior. He differentiates you from your behavior, letting you know you are loved, even while confronting behavior that causes pain to others, or your self.