How do you guys feel about this?

Most guys (this goes for all the gentlemen out there), wouldn't care whether the girl he loves was experienced or not. Regarding your question, your boyfriend would love the fact that you've been saving it for that "special one". Being careful is one thing that he has to know to do, or else it could be a bad experience for both of you.

If you think he'll be a bit shy about it, you have to reassure him that you feel the same way and you trust each other fully. Take into consideration that sex usually changes the relationship, whether subtle or dramatically it could effect you two as a whole. Which could cause tension between each other, and change everyday things like how you treat one another. Results may not occur at first but over time things like this could begin to happen. Other than that, he will be happy with what you have to give, age shouldn't be a factor and since he loves you, their is nothing to worry about really.


Good luck with whatever you decide.

.I've never been fond of this situation.i know most guys prefer virgins but like with anything else I suggest you play on your own level .

I am curious to find out what everyone says about this. I have been talking to a guy 9 years older than me and I am a virgin. If things move forward I wondered the same things.