Boyfriend doesn't wanna go down on me?

Well first off you have a terribly selfish man, and you need to tell him if he doesn't go down on you that means no more blow jobs. Heck yes I really like going down on my girl, even more than getting a blowjob and I do that every chance I get! It's more personal and intimate and I know it means a lot more to her emotionally than her bj to me, and the same with me. He just needs to get started, slowly at first until he develops a yearning to smell and taste you there. You don't have to try to hide the smell or try making your taste any different than it is now, because once he starts there'll be plenty of times he'll want to go down on you at the spur of the moment just as you happen to be right then, especially when you're horny. lol That's the best to me when she's completely natural. On a day you want to get him started, make sure to dress really hot and sexy in something he really likes you to wear. Have him kiss up your legs and then get his nose on you and finally lick you and tell him how much you like that. This needs to increases more & more until you tell him you want his tongue more & more and make sure you keep telling him what's feeling best to you. I just would NEVER expect my girl to give me a blowjob if I wasn't comfortable eating her out. Besides, to a guy, getting a bj is just getting off in a really nice way. To a girl being eaten out good is like a very lovey and emotional and it makes a certain kind of special bond between her and her guy, thing and means her guy is really into her in a big way. Get him started ASAP and insist that he learns to bring you to climax good no matter how long it takes! Eventually, he should not only enjoy it but love it too, and look forward to pleasuring you this way whenever he gets the chance even if you won't be returning the favor.

I would make sure you wash yourself before sex and make sure you smell good for him. I love to go down on my girl because I like to give her pleasure, and she loves it too, but I've been with some girls that smelled or tasted bad or didn't wash beforehand. Also, I've also come up with toilet paper in my mouth or something like that because the girl peed beforehand. I try to make sure I've showered or am clean in that area as well for my woman. If washing doesn't work to get rid of odor, you could check with your doctor to see if there's a problem or if there's something that could help you - like douching or something like that. I think it should be kept trimmed neatly too - not like a wild, hairy bush or something! ha ha Also, you could ask your man if there's something that he doesn't like about going down on you or if he just doesn't like it in general. Those are all of my suggestions! Good luck!

look I'm not saying ur vagina might smell,but sometimes it does and you don't know it urself,look there are special tablets you put in there or ointments you rub in there to vibrate good oder,and use perfume around that area,this should solve the problem,i promise then he would be down there 24/7

I don't know if you can make him other than saying "I do it for you, you do it for me". Let him know you like it and encourage him when he is doing it. Some guys don't like it. Usually, the biggest worry is cleanliness. Most guys prefer to have it kept shaved or trimmed. Just basic hygiene can help with any negative smell or taste. Guys can love it or hate it. Sometimes the ones that hate are just scared and aren't sure they are doing it right, so make sure you reassure him that you enjoy it. I personally love going down on a girl. I always ask the girl to let me know if she likes something more than something else. especially in the beginning. Before he starts just tell him to take his time and that you're excited. But really. if he won't return the favor. cut out the blow jobs. If you really wanna be mean you can work him up and then just stop if he won't do it. Good luck.

Hey,

It may not be a case of your personal hygiene as so many people here have assumed. It may be that he doesn't really know what he is doing.

Let's face it, the vagina and clitoris are more complex to master than a penis and testicles.

I think you should shower together or bathe together and so that will eradicate the possible issue of odor - you should definitely talk to him about his concerns about giving you oral sex. It may be that he just doesn't know what to do and didn't want to ask. With practice and guidance he may feel reassured and more willing!

Withholding oral sex from him because he won't give you oral is just silly though. You want to get to the root cause.

Before you listen to any of these guys tell you about how to treat your vagina, be reminded that this is one of nature's most precious treasure caches. What I mean is that women literally hold the potential of creation in these little boxes we carry downstairs. Life is created in our vaginas and therefore the smells and juices can be acidic/basic due to it's amazing chemical capabilities. So, with that, do not mess with it's natural chemistry by putting anything unnatural up your va-jay-jay. You can hurt yourself. Would you drink Glade freshener if your guys said you had bad breath? Guys don't know how delicate the skin and chemistry is and so unless they are a doctor, they should not prescribe douching or any other foreign treatment. Any gynecologist that I have seen does not recommend douches.

Bottom line- your vagina will always have a distinct smell, taste. And any good man knows that it is an acquired taste. The smell reminds them of sex. That is the smell of sex. Some men steal women's panties or buy them on the black-market because of it's distinct smell and they want to be reminded of it.

Just make sure that you keep good hygiene and when wiping always go from front to back, never reverse - this will keep bacteria away from your vagina. Also, when you put on a lean pair of panties, never let the bottom of your foot touch your panties because you might still spread bacteria from your foot to your vagina.

Your guy needs to get over it. Most guys will agree with me when I say that it is a treat, many men lust for.

Stop going down on him and act mad. If he cares, he'll do what his girlfriend pleases.