Is internet chatting cheating?

I actually lost my girlfriend due to this. She investigated more and more into the guy. I was always there for her and supportive but she kept on the conversations and was secret about it. If you are losing interest in you boyfriend find a way to talk about it. Or talk about new ideas/situations and it could bring of you up and become even more stronger.

When looking at it if feels like infidelity.

i don't think so but you shouldn't let things get to serious. You should probably try to do some of that with your bf. but I think as long as you don't tell him were you live or give him your personal info. its an ok way to have a little fun. But I don't recommend you do it.

nah its just a little fun huh? lol unless you go to far of course

If you are investing your emotional intimacy in someone other than your boyfriend, you are not investing it in him, and therefore you are denying him the privilege of an intimate relationship, which seems to be what people want from their boy/girlfriends. Although that may not be the case, so pray over it and listen to your conscience, which seems to be saying it is.

in my opinion it is borderline.

when you are having feelings for someone less and thinking of someone less in that boyfriend way then yeah it is cheating, because it is an emotional state.

would you call it cheating if he was doing the same?

It depends.
We all have different definitions of "cheating".
Some say kissing is cheating. Or sex. Or some could consider an innocent dinner date cheating. You know what I mean?
With your situation, I'm looking at it as,
How would you feel if your guy was getting intimate with another girl online?
Lets say he never plans on meeting this chick, but when he is alone, or online, he thinks about her, sexually. Of course you would never know that, but if you did, how would you feel?
I'm not saying your a bad girlfriend for flirting online.
Maybe there is something missing in your relationship (or from your bf) which forced you to find it somewhere else. And you found it online. You get that pleasure you want, without going over YOUR definition of "cheating". Does that makes sense?

So, think about it, if your boyfriend really means something to you, then maybe you should stop and figure out what's missing in your relationship.
If he treats you like crap, then have fun online :)

u shouldn't be getting hot and nasty with some body on the it is wrong. won't you write to ur boyfriend and get hot and nasty with him. but it is not cheating but it isn't good. how would you feel if ur boyfriend was doing that with another girl? you would ask him why wasn't he doing it with u. so it is wrong but not cheat you should stop because you should be flirting while ur going out with somebody it isn't write. and if there isn't no trust there is no relationship and it seems like he can't trust u

A good definition of being inappropriate is whether or not you would write that stuff to this guy with your boyfriend reading it. If not, you are nearing the line and may be crossing it, depending on just what is said in these emails.

Be careful.

I think so.

I'm kind of a flirty girl and thus tend to be sort of flirty towards everyone (girls included, and I'm not attracted to them). But it's more playful than actual flirting. Not hot and heavy. Purposefully flirting online with a guy is the same as flirting with them anywhere else.Think about it like this. If you were at a club with the person and saying the same things would you consider it flirting? Would you do it in front of your boyfriend?

I'd say it is cheating. Don't do it if you have any respect for your boyfriend. Otherwise maybe it's time to see new people.

Think of it this way: Would you want your boyfriend having hot and heavy conversations with a girl he met on the internet? My guess is you wouldn't so try to think of it from his perspective.