I'm sure the relationship between a 23 and 17 year old won't last,take my case for example, me and this 17 year old girl lived together for 3 month,but she just wanted to explore more guys and relationships for she was too young for commitment in a relationship,therefore they always move on and guys above 20 shouldn't waste time for teens,
Update: i couldn't agree more,guess it was one of the ridiculous things I have done ever,
3 months ago
this happened to me, except I was the older one!.i was 21 and he was 18, the relationship got really intense, but because he was so young, he was worried he would miss out on young fun. it sucked because being older I realised it was something special, and that he would probably regret it when he gets older. But I figure if its meant to be it will. All I know is I'm never getting involved with a young person again!
Lol I'm sorry but any 17 (or less) year old that dates a guy that's in his twenties is stupid. No, it doesn't mean that they are MATURE it just means they're freaks. and why would a 20+ year old guy want to date a 17 year old come on those years are they years that you just want to have fun, drink and go to parties and do all those shit. Specially guys! So why would you want to worry about some girl following you around trying to fit in and try to act all mature, when you can just screw around with a girl that's around your age so you don't have to worry police thinking that you are trying to rape her lol sorry it happens! and because she is under 18 she won't get in trouble and all those rules and craps and you don't have to get yelled at by their parents
doesn't mean they're MATURE if they date older guys, they think it's cool and it may be cool but no freakin teen is ready for a serious relationship unless they are actually with their boyfriend/girlfriend for a really really long time OF COURSE you shouldn't date a teen girls
I've been there, but I was 21 when I got into my first relationship. It lasted 6 months, and when we broke up, it wasn't because I was moving on to another relationship, but I also knew that if we were meant to be together, we will be. The thing with that is, he has since moved 11 hours away, and I will be making it a bigger difference when I move 3 hours in the opposite direction. Maybe that's a sign, lol. At 17, girls don't normally know what they want in a relationship, so it shouldn't be a huge shock that she wanted to explore other options. As much as it sucks to hear, but some girls have no idea what they are looking for in a relationship. Maybe you scared her a little. You sound like you're at that age where you're wanting to settle down, start a life with a woman, and she's still young, wants to have fun. That was the problem between me and my ex (among many other problems).
in most cases I agree with you but on the other hand it is basically a maturity thing. i am also 17 years old and dated a guy for 2 years who was in his twenties. now I am told that I am mature for my years but instead of pointing the finger it just didn't work! turns out he wasn't ready for a relationship and I got left in a dust. I agree that if a female hasn't had a boyfriend and your trying to commit it is not going to work, but maturity is a big standard in relationships like that and personality compatibility .
haha dude I've only dated one person younger then me and that was back in highschool, now all I've been talking to are girls older then me and a few that are my age, its true though because the whole teen thing is all for experience and I've had my fair share of that so I've been "movin on up" since then lol
Why should there be a question,i just wanted to know what others think of the matter.do you have to be asked to come up with an answer?or you have an opinion? - 3 months ago
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