I went on a date to an amusement park 2 days ago with my boyfriend of 10months. Usually we go to the movies or something so we were REAALLYYY excited about this. We were there for 9 hours in 100 degree weather. I forgot my wallet.and he never offered to buy me a drink. I didn't ask him for one because whenever I suggested putting our phones in lockers so we could go on water rides, he would tell me he didn't bring money.annnnd occasionally he would bring me to a nasty, leafy, ant-infested, warm water fountain. I also told him I was thirsty and he laughed and told me to drink my saliva. It got to the point where I passed out on the highest rollercoaster in the world with a 90 degree drop.
At the end of that ride he shook me awake and was like "lets go look at the pictures!" annnnnnnd everyone was all screaming with their hands in the air.but I was like dead asleep. While waiting in line for rides I had to lean against walls and railings so I wouldn't fall over. He asked me to kiss him and I was like.I cant! my mouth is stuck together because I'm so thirsty! =[ After only 3hours of being there, all I wanted to do was go home and drink something.and I was going to bring him in and give him a drink too because I thought he must have been minutes from death as well. A random lady at the park asked me if I needed help because I looked so awful. soooooooooooo after 9 hours we start heading back to the entrance and he looks at me and is like "Hey do you want to get a drink on the way out?". and I was like.=O YES. .so he got 1 drink.and I didn't mind that we were sharing it but.I was like .u had money this whole time and you were just watching me die? and he was like.well, just think, if you had had a drink earlier, you wouldn't be as satisfied now ;)
I was SO upset and forced him to buy me a drink on the way to my house (after like 30mins of begging and telling him that I would pay him back). He had his credit card, his atm card, and loads of cash. whhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaattttt the heck?! lol =[ I broke up with him that night and told him that I didn't feel like he cared about me.but now after 2 days I'm really sad because I miss him. like what do you guys think about this? my dad says that if I ever want to be foolish enough to go back out with this guy, then he will have to have an UGLY talk with him first about how he almost killed his daughter because he's so cheap. I don't want him to feel embarrassed. =/ should I just let him go and get over it? like.ahhhhhhhhh please give me your take on this whole thing. its so important.
o man . that's horrible never go back to him . if you decide to talk to him ask him why he lied to you and said he didn't have ne money and you were dying because you didn't have a drink. fUc* him
You deserve better. I would suggest doing your best to get over this guy to open up room for someone who really cares about you and who will treat you right.
Hah if he wants you back, he should tell you but other than that do not tell him that you miss him because what he did was wrong and if he is that much of a jerk to do that to you he's not worth it.
maybe he did that because he didn't want you to think that he will give you whatever you want whenever you want it. sadly some guys are like that.
But don't make yourself look bad, he has to apologize. after all he's the one that did something bad, not you
Move on. This guy isn't thrifty, he's either obsessed with money or just plain cruel. And if for some reason you're so stuck on him that you can't move on just yet, let your dad have that talk with him and make sure you have your own money on you at all times. Really though, just about every other guy on the planet would've treated you better than this. So give one of them a shot and ditch this guy.
Well, for starters if you were passing out on rides and felt that terribly ill you should have gone to first aid. Any attendant there could have called them for you. The last thing any amusement park wants is someone getting hurt on a ride because of heat exhaustion or dehydration. I'm sure at the very least they would have gotten you a cup with some ice.
Aside from your own personal responsibility, if your boyfriend was too ignorant to see what type of condition you were in I doubt he'd be any more attentive to you in a more dire situation. I'm surprised he wasn't burning up too.
I agree with your dad. Your health is no laughing matter. I certainly wouldn't go chasing some guy down who seemed so lackadaisical about a situation like that.
I know....I just didn't want to embarrass my boyfriend by getting emergency help because he didn't have enough money to keep me alive. hah that's so sad sounding =[ but since he DID, in fact, have money....I broke up with him =] - A month ago
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