OK, this girl calls me from the town I used to live in. She wants go date me, I tell her I'm not too good with long distance relationships. She said try it for a week so I did. Things went great but she got to see how lonely long distance relationships can be. So jokingly I suggested we be FWB, she said that was a great idea (when I did live in town we had great sex).
I thought this was just crazy at first. But then again I do take trips into that town at least once a month. She said that when she gets a car she will stop by and see me when she can. We do more than have sex we also go to dinner and such, its just a no commitment relationship.
Is this just the craziest thing you have ever heard of? I also can't help but think that she has a hidden agenda, she does like sex (sometimes more then anyone I've ever met). I don't really like her in a lets get married way, and I have told her that I want to be able to explore my other options and that she should too.
Well, I think that you have expanded the FWB category. It sounds like you two are dating, as a couple. Nothing wrong with that, and you both are accepting of the long distance consequences that can be presented in such. I say that if you both are having a good time, go for it.
It doesn't crazy, then again, a lot of us get married, to get married, etc.
No, it's not the craziest thing I've ever heard of.
Being human – and adult – doesn't come with rules. Go there, but be prepared for one of you (or both of you) to eventually move past where you are now.
Crucial rule: honesty. You make up the rules as you go along, but you've got to be honest about it. Honest will be the only glue that binds such a relationship or friendship together over the long term. It's the basis of mutual respect.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal first date would be to do something my date and I like. So if my date is into sports, we could go to a basketball or football game and since I'm a movie freak we could go to the movies afterwards and then finish up with dinner. I would wear casual clothes, jeans and a nice t-shirt. The date could end at my doorstep, the next date he might be able to come in.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Afterwards, my date would know a lot about. They would know about what I like to do for fun, they would know my favorites. I would tell them about my family and my lifestyle. I won't tell everything because there wouldn't anything left to tell on the next date.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: A month ago
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