First Time Advice

I just wanted to say that your message has really encouraged me to continue waiting. I'm 24. I know the waiting is so hard and its like everyone else has already done it. And all the guys I meet are %#?!*...
I do not think that the escort service is a good idea but I think what BlueSky said is better. Basically, got to meet more people and I think it should be special.

If you decide to use an escort, go to Las Vagas or somewhere else in the world where prostitution is legal and a place with a good reputation (where they test the women) so you don't end up with more than you wanted :) Like an STD

Just be careful.

Don't tell them you are a virgin till after the fact. It will scare off some girls and others will just see you as a trophy.

Ok, Paying could get you an STD. Definintely a good way to NOT make your first time special. Do you just want to date or do you want something long term. Oh right :) you just want anything at this point. Go try match.com or something. Write about yourself. Have a female friend or a sister help you write your ad. Get a digital camera and take a LOT of pictures. A good pic is worth a thousand words. If you don't photograph well take at least 50 of them in different places and clothes and pick the best 4 and post them. If you post your income and you make a lot of money you will get more responses but you will also get gold diggers (I wouldn't post that - If they want to know they can ask after they meet you). Then write women. Write as many as you are interested in and you will get at least a few dates. Actually write, tell them about yourself. Suggest coffee for a first date. Always pay for their coffee. Tell them "You look great" or "Your picture doesn't do you justice" Look at some of the other similar questions on this site for compliments/eye contact etc... Then just be yourself. You will find someone.