This guy that I've been friends with for almost a year, but have been dating for over 3 months had to move to another country. We decided to keep things going, at least to see if he could come back here in a year. I seem to be the only one working at this. He says he doesn't want to get too, too serious because if he can't come back, it would be harder if we were. That's understandable, but no matter how serious or not, this kind of thing takes some effort. He expects me to know that he cares because he allots time to talk on the phone with me. That's the only thing he does. If I'm ever bothered by something or I have a bad day at work, he doesn't want to hear it. He only wants me to e-mail him about it. I'm going on vacation and part of the vacation is going to where he is to see him. he acts like he doesn't even care. he says that he's just not the type of person who gets excited about things. the thing is.he never acted like this when we first started dating. I feel myself complain a lot and I hate it because it's really not natural for me. I want this to work because he is the first guy in years to make me want a relationship. I have no idea what to do.
well if he switched his game up then that usually means that sumthings come up in his life but I could be wrong and I don't believe he's a person who doesn't get excited because everybody gets excited bout stuff and if anything ya could try to buy webcams so ya can see each other that way if it helps but me personally if I was really feeling you ill do what I can to make that shit work but just ask him if he wants to be wit you and if he says yes then tell him to visit YOU to prove it.but hey that's me
It sound like this guy really doesn't care. I think maybe he found someone new. You should stop this relationship before you hurt yourself more. He should be there for you to hear about your bad days. I believe a long-distance relationships works out when both (girl&guy) put effort into making it work.
Girl, I'm sorry,but if he sounds like he doesn't care for you then he probably doesn't. He could be seeing some other chick that you don't know about. If he doesn't want to hear about a bad day at work or something then where's the relationship.
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