My boyfriends perfect girl is nothing like me. is that ok?

A guy's ideal women doesn't exist, or at least he will never find her. We all know this, just like our ideal society will never be realized. it's not realistic, it's just a dream

Don't worry about it.

Very often, I'm attracted to girls who not only are the opposite of my ideal women, but don't even meet basic "my type" values.

Happiness comes in many different forms. Maybe he wont' want to marry you. but it doesn't mean he doesn't love being with you

dont worry about it - be yourself

Is he talking about stuff you could change? Like dying your hair blond or something? Because if that's it then he might be trying to give you hints. If it's stuff you can't change, like height, then it seems kind of cruel to me. I mean it'd be okay if he said "before you I always liked taller girls," but if he's saying "I only like tall girls" then it seems like he's trying to make you feel bad.

Of course that's ok! At least he's honest with you and doesn't just say "Oh you" because that would be unrealistic - our expectations and "perfect" ideals are rarely met.

My perfect man probably doesn't exist and his perfect woman probably doesn't.

If he didn't want you he wouldn't be with you.

I say, stop being hung up on it and don't ask him that question anymore!

i mean, every boy has their "ideal woman", and to find out its nothing like you hurts. But its ok.as long as he shows you that he loves you regardless, and doesn't compare you to his dream woman lol.than you're all good.
just tell him about you're dream man and see how he likes it
lie a little to make him feel what you feel.

goodluck!
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