How do you approach the topic of becoming friends with benefits with a guy? We both had feelings for each other and eventually started sleeping together. After a month we decided that we were too different to make a romantic relationship work. We are now just friends and neither of us is really looking for a relationship. How do I tell him I want to be friends with benefits?
Wow, pretty harsh there anonymous. I can see where this would be an awkward question to approach. Luckily for you very few men would ever turn down sex. I say talk about it after. If the idea a non-starter for him then no harm done.
well. when I had a ffriend with benefits we didn't really talk about it, it just happened. if you both want to then you will. or you can just make the first move, if he goes for it you're in, of not try to explain your 'needs' to him and where he stands in the whole situation.
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